We all know the basic pleasures of a good dildo, having a go-to dildo that pleasures you the way it always has done, it never lets you down and it’s always there when you need it. It may vibrate, it may spin, it may be plain, it may be bold but no matter what it looks like it works for you and in this article I wanted to share with you the best 8 anal dildos that I use, they have never strayed far from me and I always know I can depend on them.

In my line of work, I go through a lot of sex toys, the ones I don’t enjoy I don’t even mention but as you can imagine I have boxes filled with them and so it’s very important for me to keep on track and know what works for me. These anal dildos I love and I wanted to share my sexually appetizing bliss with you.

The Best Anal Dildos (Beginner To Size Queen)

I am fully aware that everyone has different tastes, I usually prefer larger sex toys but I know some people like to keep it small all of the time and so in my list, I have included everything I love from smaller dildos all the way up to the types of anal dildos that size queens will drool over.

Beginner Anal Dildo (First Timer)

Made from exotically smooth silicone, this 5.5-inch dildo can be used both anally and vaginally, so you can have a little versatility when you play. The smooth shaft curves slightly so that it can be sure to stimulate your P or G-spot and the suction cup base allows you to play where and how you like, you can suction it to any hard and flat surface which is a feature on any dildo that gets my pussy racing.

The Perfect Sized Anal Toy

This dildo gives you 7 inches to play around with and a flared base so you can attach it to a harness, stick to a wall and you can even slip a bullet vibrator inside for internal thrills like never before. I love the shape of this shaft, it expertly curved to pleasure you internally, it knows how to seek out your orgasms and it does it with ease. The realistic (ish) head feels great as it slips in and out of you, it mimics the same sensation as a real cock, which is always a big thumbs up from me. Be sure to also read all about my thrusting dildos, they are insane.

Beaded Anal Dildo With Suction Cup

Although it may not seem it this dildo is actually so great for beginners, the graduating beads make insertion a lot easier and so pleasurable. It actually doesn’t matter if you’re new to anal or not, the beads feel great and the suction cup base allows you to really tailor your experience and use your dildo to your needs. The dildo measures 6.5 inches and there are 6 bulbous beads to insert, it’s a firm yet flexible dildo that works with your body to give you the most satisfaction.

Inflatable Anal Dildo

Giving you total control during play this inflatable anal dildo is great for those who want to tease themselves into anal and learn where they stand. This anal dildo inflates from 5inches to 12 inches and you are in control at all times thanks to the helpful hand pump. With an easy release valve, you can decrease the size of the dildo whenever you wish. For tailored play and even kinky couples, an inflatable dildo is a wonderful addition to any toy box.

Ebony Anal Dildo

If you enjoy realism with your dildos then this lifelike 7-inch dildo is most likely for you. Enjoy 7 detailed inches and a suction cup base for hands-free pleasure, the 7-inches of this magnificent shaft is lined with veins, a bulbous protruding head, and even small skin detailings to make it as a hyper-realistic as possible. You can even attach this dildo to a harness if pegging is something you enjoy, it’s a great dildo with lots of versatility and the ability to pleasure you both anally and vaginally. Check out also these strap-ons, they take a dildo into another dimension.

The Longest Anal Dildo

For those who enjoy size like me this realistic suction cup dildo measures in at an impressive 10-inches. You don’t often see dildos this long as soon as it is one of my prized possessions. Just like the dildo above it has raised veins, a textured shaft, and a bulbous head to really amp up the satisfaction meter. It can also amazingly be used with a harness or hands-free (suction cup). Another thing I love about the suction cup is that this means it won’t ride up inside of you and you know it’s safe both anally and vaginally no matter if you get just the tip in or the whole lot.

Huge Deep Anal Dildo (One of the biggest around)

Not for beginners, this beautiful giant anal dildo is for those who enjoy larger sex toys and are more experienced at anal play. Measuring in at 9.5 inches of insertable length and a girth of 8.8 inches, this dildo is enough to push most to their limits. I love this anal dildo, I find it makes my anal orgasms so strong and you can also attach it to a harness for hands-free pleasure and seriously kinky nights in.

Squirting Anal Dildo (Ejaculating Dildo)

I am a big fan of cum and I know a lot of you are too. Feast your eyes upon this realistic, ejaculating dildo. No matter your reasons this squirting dildo is incredibly easy to use and already comes with the ‘cum’ for you to use. Use your ultra-realistic 7-inch dildo however you wish and when it comes to the finale use the easy squeeze device and coat or fill yourself or your partner in delicious ‘cum’. If this sounds good to you, I would love for you to check out the essentials every hotwife needs.

Homemade anal dildo?

It is possible to make a homemade anal dildo, there are plenty of things you can use such as a clean hairbrush (the handle end), vegetables such as cucumbers (use a condom over them always) and even a flashlight can be used however you must make sure they are all clean, sterilized and you use them with a condom on. Make sure also to always use plenty of lube and be aware of how far you are pushing your sex toy inside of yourself.

Truthfully, I don’t really rate homemade sex toys, yes it’s possible and yes people do it but for the risk, it’s not worth it, especially when you can buy sex toys so inexpensively now and so discreetly online. So much can go wrong using something you find laying around your home, not to mention how many stories we have all heard about someone heading to A&E with something so odd shover up their ass. Using a sex toy that’s actually designed for the purpose of shoving it up in your ass, it eliminates risk and ensures you actually have a good time.

How To Use An Anal Dildo

• Make sure all your toys have a base

All the toys above are safe for anal play, be careful if you use something that hasn’t got a flared base such as a homemade dildo or something I don’t use myself. If your dildo doesn’t have a flared base or even a harness it can attach to ensure you keep a good hold of the dildo and you don’t let it go up inside of you all of the way. If something does happen like this get into a squat position and push lightly and your sex toy should start to come back down. For me, this is why having a flared base or a harness is so important and is something I look for.

• Make Sure You Get The Right Lube

Using the wrong lube can mean you actually wear out your sex toys (if they are made from silicone and you are using silicone-based lubricant) or it can mean you are constantly re-applying it as it just keeps on drying. The best lube to use is a water-based lubricant, it’s safe to use with sex toys and anal play. If no sex toys are involved silicone-based lube is also wonderful however water-based is just an easy safe option.

• Warm-up with a finger or two

Even being a self-confessed anal queen now I still use a little something to warm up my butt hole. I use my fingers or smaller sex toys to just warm it up a little and get it ready for some play. To warm up your ass with your fingers ensure you go slow, insert one finger and slowly rock it back and forth (make sure your nails are trimmed!).

Combine this anal stimulation with masturbation of your cock/clitoris, you will feel your body relaxing and being more inviting towards anal guests.

• Slowly work your way up to bigger toys (if that’s your thing)

That’s what I did, I started small and eventually got myself up to where I wanted to be. Never go in first with the biggest toy you can find, start humble (like the first sex toy on my list) and work your way up to the bigger devices, it’s always in your best interest to do this.

• Aim For The A-Spot or Prostate

Most of my dildos are curved and so they are perfectly designed to aim for your A-spot or P-spot, this is located up inside of your anal cavity and anal orgasms are achieved through this so it’s a good idea to find it. Your dildo will find it for you but it’s always nice to experiment and explore your own body so that you know exactly where to aim for.

• Wash your toys with hot water and soap after

I can’t emphasize enough the importance of cleaning your sex toys, especially anal sex toys. The bacteria build-up can ruin your toys and actually spread infection, it takes minutes to wash them off and dry them.

If you have any questions, just leave them in the comments below, I love hearing from you, it makes my day.

Kelly xoxo