I am very excited to get underway with this article, I have been organizing it for months now and it’s finally time to be able to share it with you.
A few months back a reader sent me a message telling me all about their experiences with a BDSM collar and how turned on they get using it. I was ecstatic reading their message but it also got me thinking that I needed to try more of these BDSM collars out, I only had a couple that were used and some more that were sitting in storage boxes.
I love BDSM, I love being submissive and dominant, I love being told what to do in the bedroom and I certainly got more turned on by the idea of a collar the more I read into them and how much fun they can be, I was so excited to rip open the storage boxes and discover the lost art of BDSM collars.
What Is A BDSM Collar?
A BDSM collar is a collar that is worn around the neck, with or without a leash. Often the collar will indicate slave status and indicate the submissive role of the collar wearer. Some people like to wear these collars in the bedroom and some take it even further and wear their collar at all times as they serve their master 24/7.
BDSM collars are also used as a fashion accessory, for roleplay ie puppy/kitten play and slave play, during possession play and the list goes on.
Different Types Of Collars
There are plenty of collars out there, people have their own unique preferences but I like to stick to the ones I outline further on in this article.
However, here are just a few examples of BDSM collars that you can expect to see:
Dog collars or ‘Play Collars‘: Yes, actual dog collars. You can buy these from any pet store, obviously, try to be discreet when testing if it fits or not.
Jewelry collars: These types of collars you have probably seen and not even really noticed. They aren’t exactly like the fashionable 2000’s choker, they are like a normal necklace but with a BDSM influence, so this could be anything from a huge leash ring, spikes, studs, etc.
Day Collar: Day collars are a little more discreet than the others we have seen, they are meant for everyday wear. Often they will be a simple necklace with a padlock or something that symbolizes that this sub is taken.
Toy Compatible Collars: These types of collars will have an attachment for a leash, ball gag, nipple clamps, etc.
Posture Collar: These are usually quite large covering the whole neck, these types of collars improve the subs posture and restrict neck movement.
The Best BDSM Collars
I have outlined below all of my favorite BDSM collars if you are a beginner testing the water or a professional looking for something new you will find something you like in my collection. My boyfriend and I love these collars and leashes, they add an extra sprinkle of kink into our bedroom.
Faux Leather Collar And Leash
Made from faux-leather (something you don’t always find with velcro fastened restraints), this is a sturdy leash and collar that is comfortable to wear and doesn’t need any upkeep or leather care to keep it in top condition.
You can wear the collar on its own and when you’re ready to attach the sturdy leash or you can wear them together at all times.
Faux Leather Collar and Cuff Set
Use this faux-leather collar with or without the cuffs and the detachable collar. It is a fantastic set that allows you to explore restraint, submission, and patience with ease. The cuffs, collar, and leash are all made from high-quality materials that are soft and ready to go as soon as you remove their packaging, this set is sturdy and reliable and a great addition to any kinks bedroom.
Soft Collar and Leash
I love this soft collar and leash, again this leash is completely detachable so you can replace it with a chain or even a faux-leather leash. This soft leash measures 1 meter in length so you can also keep your submissive by your side by giving them enough room to move around.
The collar does have a velcro fastening so although your collar is secured firmly in place it also does make it easier for quick release. Something else I love about this leash and collar is the fact that it is non-intimidating, it is easy on the eye and should somebody stumble across it could be for your dog.
Collar With Nipple Clamps
Made from strong velcro this bondage collar comes with a D-ring so you can attach a leash and it also features two chains with crocodile nipple clamps so you can enjoy sensory pleasure and pain. You can adjust the intensity of the nipple clamps easily, tailoring the pressure and intensity to your needs.
Nipple clamps are such a turn on for me, I love the fact that my partner can adjust them for my needs and bring me pleasure without me doing a thing. They also look so kinky.
Chain Lead with Leather Handle
A very bondage-esque chain lead that attaches to most collars, cuffs, and restraints. The leather handle gives an edge to the enchanting chain lead. The leather handle is used to guide your sub into the bedroom. This leash is excellent quality and the quick-release clip means you can easily release your sub without any issues.
Soft Leather Collar
Made from real leather, this collar is incredibly soft and totally adjustable with the 12-hole buckle. It also comes with a D-ring that can be attached to most leashes. If cared for properly this collar should last you a lifetime thanks to the real leather and nickel-free metal.
The Cutest Day BDSM Collar
This collar is the perfect example of a day collar, it is small and discreet but enough to wear in public to display your dom/sub relationship that you may have. It is velvety soft and fastened with velcro and it also has a small O-ring that can be attached to most leashes and other restraints.
Slave Collar
This slave collar is all about showing what you are rather than being controlled by a leash. Wear it in public, at sex parties, online, or in the bedroom. The collar is made from super-soft silicone so it’s comfortable to wear for long periods of time, the bold ‘SLAVE’ lettering is also incredibly kinky and allows you to project your intentions to the world, no matter whereabouts you wear it.
How My Boyfriend And I Use Our Sexy BDSM Collars
I like to be submissive over him but we do swap roles now and again. We slip the collar around my neck, attach the leash and head into the bedroom where my boyfriend guides me, tells me what to do and directs me with the leash. He tells me to get on my knees, suck his cock, get on all fours and do exactyly as he says and having the lead there just make things 10x more fun.
I don’t often wear a collar out in public but I do enjoy wearing one every now and again when we head to sex parties or dungeons. It’s such a kink and you do get people asking about the collar and about my ‘master’.
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