Butt plugs are awesome and honestly so underrated. People tend to skim over butt plugs and assume they are a bit of an unnecessary sex toy but I am here to tell you that butt plugs make a wonderful addition to foreplay and sex and deliver incredible pleasure and put a new kinky spin on your sexual satisfaction.
Today I wanted to share with you my love for butt plugs and an in-depth guide on all things butt plug, so whether you’re a newbie butt plug user or whether you are well accustomed to plugs, you will love my tips, tricks and guides.
Guides To Butt Plugs
I wanted to show my readers how brilliant butt plugs actually are, there are so many different types, some vibrate, some rotate, some stay still and some even pulsate but it all comes down to choosing what type of butt plug is right for you (I will be showing you my top picks further on below).
Butt plugs can be worn by men or women and unless specifically stated, you can assume a butt plug is unisex and safe to use by any sex.
Whether you’re looking for P-spot orgasms, anal stimulation or even just something a little bit different, a butt plug will help you and they don’t have to be intimidating.
Types of Butt Plugs:
Before I show you my favorite butt plugs I wanted to share the types of butt plugs out there so that you can see how much choice and variety there actually is. Butt plugs aren’t boring and plain like they are often portrayed to be, they are so much more than that and definitely a dark horse in the sex toy world.
The types below are only a handful, there are so many out there but these are my favorites and the ones I feel like deserve the most recognition.
- Vibrating butt plug – There are vibrating butt plugs that are often controlled via a push button of wired remote control. These vibrations feel awesome inside your butt and feel equally as awesome if you leave the butt plug in during vaginal sex.
- Non-vibrating butt plug– Some people enjoy butt plugs that don’t offer any type of vibration, this is because they enjoy the pure stimulation that the butt plug offers to their P/A spot. These types are usually made from silicone.
- Tail/Jewelled Butt Plug– These butt plugs are so cute and actually some of my favorite. They come with a furry tail attached or a beautiful jewel and they look so nice when inserted, it’s kinky and opens up a world of roleplay scenarios.
- Inflatable Butt Plugs– Inflatable butt plugs are most commonly controlled via a wired pump where you can increase and decrease the size of the butt plug when it’s inside of you.
- XL Plugs – These butt plugs are larger than average and for those types of people who enjoy the sensation of stretching and larger sex toys.
- Ribbed – Lined with different textures or larger towards the tip, ribbed butt plugs offer a different type of stimulation and ensure you achieve ultimate pleasure.
- Temperature play – A lot of these types of plugs are made from stainless steel so that you can effectively enjoy your butt plug at different temperatures, this delivers sexual pleasure and feels amazing.
The Best Butt Plugs:
Now it’s time to share with you my all-time favorite butt plugs, those that have made me squirm with pleasure, orgasm with ecstasy and converted me into using a butt plug during vaginal sex, butt play and even convinced my boyfriend to try one out when he saw the fun I was having.
Vibrating Butt Plug (My favorite)
This is my favorite vibrating butt plug, it’s small, pretty discreet, and houses a removable bullet vibrator so that you can enjoy direct clitoral stimulation whenever you need it.
The butt plug has two different vibration speeds and 3 different patterns for you to cycle through so you can customize your butt plug to suit your needs.
Made from silicone and designed with a flared base you can be reassured that this butt plug isn’t going anywhere when it’s inside of you.
Coat your butt plug in plenty of water-based lube and enjoy tingling sensations through your ass.
Why Is It My Favorite?
I love large sex toys but the small petite design of this butt plug is so easy to just pop inside of me and I find it really non-intimidating which is ideal when trying new things and when my partner wants to try things out.
The vibrations are so powerful and make my ass feel incredible, anal orgasms feel breathtaking, and keeping this in whilst having vaginal sex is a dream come true for us both as my partner loves to feel the vibrations on his cock.
Being able to remove the vibrator is also marvelous as it’s like a two in one sex toy and always comes in handy when I need it.
Reviews Of This Butt Plug
These reviews are from other people who have bought this butt plug, you can read them in full for yourself by clicking the name of this sex toy above.
- ‘It is just perfect, the quality and the material is spot on. Feels super smooth and the vibrations are perfect, ranging from just a tickle to a real shake. It’s super easy to clean.’
- ‘Size is perfect. It’s not big or too small, just right. Vibrations are great, you can choose just what feels right for you. Easy to use. Material is perfect, texture is great and is easy to clean and take care of!’
- ‘It is just perfect in every way, the flared bottom is great and the bottom part where the button goes in makes a decent place to hold if you want some motion with the vibration.’
Glass Butt Plug With Faux Fur Tail
I am a massive fan of tail butt plugs, I think they are not just sexy and kinky but incredibly cute and look magnificent when inserted.
My partner and I love me wearing this faux fur tail butt plug, it makes for incredible roleplay ideas and seriously steamy sex sessions.
The butt plug itself is actually made from skin-safe glass so you can experiment with temperature play and enjoy thrilling new sensations. Dip the butt plug in warm or cool water to achieve this and then enjoy the sensory play at its finest, also enjoy the soft fur gently caressing against your bare skin.
Easy to insert but make sure to always use plenty of water-based lube (the lube I always use).
More Opinions
You can read all of these other reviews for yourself by clicking the above or clicking here for reviews.
- ‘Great fun to swish around or for your partner to grab hold of if you’ve been naughty and need keeping hold of.’
- ‘The plug itself feels amazing, smooth glass with a beautiful amber tint and just the perfect weight. The size is absolutely perfect, not so big as to cause pain or discomfort but definitely big enough to give you a wonderful “full” feeling and constant reminder that it is firmly in place. All that with soft, and very well secured, faux fur tail.’
- ‘Has no weight to it and both me and my OH love how it looks when I’m wearing it, it’s a shame to take it out. It definitely gets me in the mood and warmed up for some further anal fun.
App-Controlled Butt Plug
This is something a little different for perhaps the kinkier people out there, this is an app-controlled butt plug. This butt plug can be worn under clothes and taken for a spin out in public thanks to it being controlled via your smartphone.
I did an article all about sex toys to use in public and in that article, I mention all about sex toys like this one that is perfect to get frisky with when you’re out and about (at your own risk!).
This butt plug has 10 different vibration modes for you to enjoy, it’s flared to stop the butt plug from riding up inside of you and the butt plug is actually waterproof so you can extend your sessions to virtually anywhere.
It’s incredibly kinky to play with this we-vibe remote controlled butt plug but if you’re looking to take your orgasms and sex life to another level, this butt plug is incredible.
What Other Buyers Have Said
- ‘I love the We-Vibe Ditto USB Vibrating Butt Plug – however, calling it a Butt Plug is underestimating this sex toy as it’s so versatile. It’s a powerful multi-purpose vibe that can be used as a clit vibe, G-spot stimulator, and it is excels used as a vibrating butt plug.
Anal Sex Toy Kit
I included this 6 pieces anal sex toy kit because not only is it incredible value for money but it gives you a kickstart into butt plugs and anal sex toys.
You are able to try out all different types of butt plugs and understand what you really love best when it comes to anal and playing with your butt.
Included is: A powerful vibrator (which can go hand in hand with your butt plug or can be used for direct stimulation), A butt plug, vibrating butt plug, anal douche, vibrating anal beads, and a vibrating prostate massager. Online it also says that buying each thing individually is 47% more expensive, so you can be sure you’re saving so much money by owning this sex toy kit.
Always use lots and lots of water-based lube with any anal sex toy to ensure maximum pleasure. I wrote an article all about my favorite sex toys kits that you should check out if you want to save some money on sex toys.
Reviews From Other Buyers
- ‘I’ve been working my way up incredibly slowly but I’ve had absolutely no issues with this set of toys and find it’s incredibly good value for money. I would recommend this to anybody who is a little nervous about beginning anal and wants to start with something that isn’t overwhelming’
- ‘Me and my partner had plenty of fun with these. We used the toys with and without the bullet, on different settings, and it got us where we wanted to be. Very good sensations, vibrations and feel. The toys are super comfortable if you’re wearing the plugs during the day too. They stay nicely hidden due to their shapes.’
- ‘The bumper set of anal toys is excellent for anyone who wants to try experimenting with anal and comes with everything you will ever need. Each toy is High quality and beautifully made to give you the best experience. We score this 10/10 and would highly recommend.‘
Sensual Glass Butt Plug
I love this glass butt plug, it’s made with a tapered tip for maximum pleasure on insertion and once it’s inside of you and pushing up against your erogenous zones you are filled with overwhelming sensations of pleasure.
Use any lube with this glass sex toy and enjoy the smooth sensations and flared base for ease of mind and maximum comfort.
Experiment with temperature play by placing this glass butt plug into the fridge for a few minutes of placing it in cold or warm water before using it, experimenting with different sensations, especially inside your butt feels amazing and is something both beginners and anal professionals can still experience.
More Opinions
You can read all of these reviews in full by clicking here for reviews.
- ‘This butt plug took sex to a whole new level. I can’t recommend this enough. Glass Butt plug is definitely something to try, so don’t be shy!’
- ‘The coldness felt amazing. It slid in easily at first and then it took my ass a little time to take the widest part. (This was a big jump from my previous). But then all of a sudden, pop in it went. Wow the weight and fullness was intense. It felt secure and as though it could stay there quite happily for a while. So perfect if your looking for wearing out and about.’
- ‘The shape makes it easy to ease into it slowly, feels great during both solo play and with a partner. Great value for money! This is probably my favourite anal plug that I own!’
LoveHoney Inflatable Butt Plug
Using this inflatable butt plug allows you to totally customize your experience and tailor your needs to exactly what you need. It’s a really versatile sex toy, every time with it can be uniquely different.
This inflatable butt plug is incredibly easy to use, all you need to do is use the pump to increase the size of your butt plug and then switch on the vibrations to experience true anal bliss.
Something I adore about this butt plug is the fact I can the vibrations to my partner and he can decide how intense or subtle that it’s going to be.
What Other Users Have Said
- ‘fits in nice and easy and already felt pretty great then I started pumping and my mind nearly exploded. Then the vibrations, I could play with this for hours!’
- ‘When we first use it I found it easy to use and it goes in well with plenty of lube. It inflates to a good size and is quick and easy to deflate.’
- ‘This has since become one of my favorite toys. When I want some no-nonsense anal play and a guaranteed good orgasm, this is the toy I reach for first.’
Tracey Cox Vibrating Butt Plug
Last but certainly not least I want to show you to the Tracey Cox vibrating butt plug, this sex toy is incredibly popular the reason being that you can expect thrilling orgasms and intense stimulation and just the press of a button.
Non-intimidating and designed with the curves of your body in mind, this vibrating butt plug delivers sensational orgasms at the end of your fingertips. Just like with the plug above I love to hand my partner the controller and have him control the vibrations and I do the same for him.
Easy to insert and easy to control this vibrating butt plug is one of the most sold and the excellent reviews for it just keep on flooding in.
Reviews
- ‘It’s a turn-on having power over the speed on the vibrator when using it with someone else. 100% recommended!’
- ‘Each time I have used this during intercourse, I have had the most intense orgasms of my life!
‘I started it on the weakest strength but soon had it up to full power. I paired it with a clit vibe and a dildo which I rode cowgirl style. I orgasmed within ten minutes, which is unusual for me, normally takes me longer. Since then I’ve used it several times to the same degree of success.’
How To Use A Butt Plug
Using a butt plug is really simple, all you need is time, patience, and lube.
I like to try out sex toys when I am alone before using them with my partner and I recommend doing this before using a butt plug with your partner.
Lay down a dark towel on your bed, this is just to prevent any mess that may make its way onto your sheets. Even if you use an anal douche beforehand, I do recommend putting the towel down.
Apply plenty of water-based lube to your butt plug, relax and ease the plug in.
If your butt plug has vibrations, switch these on once the butt plug is inside of you.
Turn off the vibrations when you’re finished and slowly pull the plug out whilst flexing your butt muscles.
Ease the butt plug in bit by bit, never force it in and never cause yourself any pain, just relax and if it won’t go in fully try warming up the area and try again later.
Butt Plug Questions & Answers
- Are butt plugs unisex?
Yes! Unless specifically stated otherwise you can assume all butt plugs are unisex.
- Can a butt plug get stuck?
Most butt plugs have a flared base so you can be sure they won’t ride up inside of you, however, if you do worry keep your hand on the plug to ensure it doesn’t ride up.
- Why do I need lube?
Anal lube is so important to use as it stops any friction and allows your sex toys to glide up inside of you with ease.
If you have any more questions just leave them in the comments below and I will be sure to answer your question.
Have a great day.x
Samuel says
Hi! Male hetero who recently discovered anal play helps me deal with my sexual overdrive so my wife doesn’t have to 😊 any suggestions for a medium I can wear around town, particularly one I can grind on as I work at a desk mostly. Practice has me at a solid medium. I can take a large but not sure if I will enjoy it for as long, especially solo. Any suggestions?