We have all heard of normal dildos, the type to resemble a cock or some large obstacle, we have all heard of fleshlights too, the sex toy that resembles a pussy, ass and even sometimes mouth, we are huge fans of these sex toys on this blog but something that we have never spoken about or dived in to (no pun intended) are ‘face dildos’.
What is a face dildo and who uses them?
If you have found yourself here you probably know what they are used for and what they are but for those of you that have stumbled across this little slice of heaven on the internet, let me break it down for you. A face dildo is a harness that straps around your head inside this harness there is a dildo which in some models can be removed and switched for other dildos. A face dildo is controlled by your head and used to penetrate your partner however you and they wish. Here are just some of the reasons face dildos exist:
- Face dildos are used by people inside the femdom community who enjoy making their man get on his hands and knees to pleasure them. Using his face with the dildo attached he can penetrate you any way you like, it can be humiliating, which a lot of the femdom community enjoys and find kinky.
- Those who want to experience face sitting on a whole new level.
- They can be used during BDSM and domination play and during sex. Not forgetting that they can also sometimes be used in a threesome, depending on the dynamic. Lots of naughty people enjoy this and love having a face dildo to play with.
- Face dildos are a step-up from ball gags, so if you enjoy that type of play you’re going to like this.
- Submissives are often the ones using the face dildo, having your partner use the face dildo on you for your pleasure is electrifying and plays a significant role in dom and sub relationships.
- Or you can use a face dildo during sex to have an epic 69, this can stimulate a threesome and it feels absolutely incredible. Obviously.
Men usually wear them a lot more than females unless it’s a threesome or a lesbian situation. The reason being they are more popular inside the femdom world (female dominance) and women love to see their man bound by a face dildo.
The Best Face Dildo I’ve Used
I wanted to share with you my top face dildos, I find they work wonders, provide me and my partner with the restraint and pleasure we need and they each have their own little quirks that make them unique and perfect for different types of play.
The Leather Face Dildo (My Fav)
This is my absolute favorite face dildo, I love it so much and if you’re a beginner or even if you’re just looking for a new type of face dildo I wholeheartedly recommend this one.
It’s sturdy, strong and it is adjustable so it can accommodate most head sizes. Something else I love is the fact that the double-ended dildo is detachable so you can slip in another dildo of your choice, I haven’t felt the need to do that yet but the option is there. I find the face dildo secures extremely well and we haven’t had any issues with it slipping or detaching itself whatsoever and we have gone hard with this sex toy. If you like the look of this face dildo come and click here and read all about my femdom sex toys.
It Feels Amazing Once It’s On
It’s such a thrill seeing my partner wearing this face dildo, it’s a completely different experience and I urge every couple to give it a try, at least once. We both take turns wearing it and find each time is better than the last. It’s a very versatile sex toy and it allows you to explore things you never have before, the view when wearing it is also tremendous.
When my partner uses it on me he gets a first-hand experience of watching me cum so closely, he loves it and I can’t say it doesn’t turn me on like never before knowing he is watching me.
It’s a really great sex toy, it hasn’t let us down and the orgasms and overall visuals you get from this sex toy are out of this world.
Other Face Dildos I Love Using
There are a few more face dildos I enjoy using. I always mix things up and the below have their own little quirks that I just love so much.
Silicone Ball Gag With Face Dildo
This face dildo is made from high-quality materials, including the silicone ball gag that sits perfectly inside your mouth for muffled moans. On the other side of the ball gag, you will find a 4.8 inch textured dildo with a 4-inch girth that is made to find your P-spot or G-spot and give you sensational pleasure.
The leather face harness also has 11 buckle holes so that you can adjust it to fit your head and face perfectly. It’s a gorgeous sex toy that takes face sitting to another level altogether. Be sure to also read all about the sex toys I use to peg my boyfriend.
The More Extreme Face Dildo
Finally, I wanted to show you this face dildo. I do believe it’s fine for beginners to try out however it is also ideal for more advanced face dildo users. It has a realistic, veiny, large dildo on one side, a ball gag-Esque dildo on the other side and the adjustable leather head strap is a very welcome addition to this face dildo as it offers a sort of BDSM sort of look, which makes it all the kinkier.
Fun Ways To Use A Face Dildo
There are lots of interesting and pleasurable ways you can use a face dildo and below I have highlighted just some of my partners and I favorite things to do when we have it on. Everyone is different but we like what we like and I think a lot of people enjoy the same sort of things we do, especially when it comes to the kinkier of sex toys like the face dildo. If you have anything you do or have anything you think we should try out please leave your suggestions in the comment section below!
Simulate A Threesome (69ing)
We like to use our face dildo and simulate threesomes with it. This is really easy to do and really effective at the same time. We love it when my boyfriend wears it and penetrates me whilst playing with my clit, I will then have his cock in my mouth and it really feels like there’s two people down there working on me and my orgasm. (Learn other techniques for this here)
Play with different positions (see what works)
This is so much fun to do, there are positions you didn’t even know were possible until using a face dildo for the first time. You can send your man under a table whilst fu*king you, you can be stood up, sitting, on furniture, under furniture, the list is endless because there are virtually no restrictions to where you can place your dildo.
Use your partners face as a f**k toy
This is the classic thing to do with a face dildo, using your partners face as a new sex accessory is wonderful and gets me off every time. Seeing them submit to you and pleasure you with their face and new attachment is a huge turn on and it unlocked new pleasures for us as a couple that we never knew we had.
Facesitting
Before you try this out you have to make sure you have a safe word or safe word movement as their mouth is usually gagged. Sometimes like three taps on your back or them grabbing your hips three times are the sort of thing you need to do. Once you have a safeword or safeword movement then the fun can begin, use your face or your partner’s face as a dildo and f*ck it like it’s yours. The visuals are beautiful and getting off on your partner’s face is a feeling I cannot describe.
Femdom Worship
I mentioned at the start of this post that a lot of people use face dildos when experimenting with femdom play. Femdom is the art of female dominance and making your sub wear a face dildo whilst you get off and your derive them from any pleasure is the ultimate want. Femdom doms also enjoy seeing their sub wear the face dildo around the house, doing as they are asked and f*cking them when told to do so. It’s a lot of fun and something that shouldn’t be overlooked.
Thanks so much for reading,
Kelly xoxo
Robert Vostry says
Good morning. I want to get one for the wife and I but is there any without the gag?