Updated: 09/11/2020
Ahh bondage, a word I love hearing no matter if it’s from my own lips or somebody else’s. I love people diving into bondage for the first time, I love those that float somewhere between amateur and expert and I love the hard-core bondage professionals.
Bondage is actually defined as sexual slavery but not everyone looks at it like that. I look at it as a form of giving someone sexual gratification through pain, punishment, and restriction but of course, everyone has their own spin on what bondage means to them. It takes some getting used to, being able to just let go and be submissive or dominant and give up parts of your body, that takes some skill but it isn’t difficult it just takes some practice and perseverance.
Today we aren’t going to be talking about everything that falls under the bondage umbrella, today I wanted to talk to you about breasts and breast bondage in particular.
What is breast bondage?
Breast bondage is the art of using ropes and other types of restraints to make the breasts bulge and cause all of the sensitive nerve endings in the breasts to come to the surface making the breasts far more sensitive. Breast bondage doesn’t offer much restraint so one of the main reasons people love breast bondage is the erotic aspect of it, seeing the breasts red and swelling is a very sexually appealing image for the people who engage in bondage.
The two most popular way we see the breasts is secured with a rope in a makeshift bra shape, other times the rope is secure under and above the breasts. There are lots of ways to use your restraints on the breasts but these are where most people start.
To start with you want to make sure you keep the rope quite loose, get yourself used to the sensation and only stay tied up in the bondage ropes for 10 minutes, keeping an eye on circulation and discoloration. Once you get used to the ropes you can make them tighter and restrain for longer, however when you’re starting out really take your time.
When the breasts are secured in place the dominant will usually restrain the sub’s arms as well, this is where the restraint aspect comes in. Teasing the breasts during breast bondage and other parts of the subs body is a thrill and both the dom and the sub get sexual pleasure from this.
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The Best Breast Bondage Starter Kit (everything you need to get started)
It can be hard to know where to start when it comes to something like breast bondage, there are so many people out there giving you advice from every angle of the web but I think what most people forget is when you first start out you don’t want anything intimidating or crazy you just want something that’s easy to use and allows you to do what you need to do. Below I have listed the best starter kit for breast bondage with everything you could ever need to get yourself started and enjoying the world of bondage.
This Amazing Bondage Rope
This bondage rope is durable and strong, it measures in at 10 meters so you have lots of rope to play and experiment with. Despite it being incredibly sturdy it’s also soft, which is a nice addition, especially if you’re new to breast bondage. This rope allows you to try out all sorts of techniques and different bondage knots, it’s also machine washable so you don’t need to worry about making a mess.
This Edible Massage Oil (amazing for warming up)
I am a big fan of massage oil and things got 10x better for me when I found out there was such a thing as an edible massage oil. This vanilla massage oil is my favorite, a small dripping coats wherever you want. I like to use it for sensual massages before sex and bondage play and even sometimes during bondage play, my boyfriend loves the visuals of my oiled up breasts, swollen and begging for mercy inside his ropes.
My Go-To Nipple Clamps
Add these nipple clamps to your nipples during, before, or after breast bondage for ultra nipple sensations. The silicone tips make them soft to use around the nipple and they are fully adjustable to suit your needs, whether you like a soft pinch or a hard squeeze, these nipple clamps look and feel amazing no matter when you use them during your breast bondage exploration.
Want clamps that are a little more heavy-duty:
These heavy-duty nipple clamps are ideal for those who enjoy a little more pinch with their nipples. You can adjust how tight or loose you want the clamps as they deliver nipple stimulation and sensory play like no other. The cute BDSM-Esque collar is also incredibly sexy and secures with velcro so you can be sure of easy removal. Something else I love about these nipple clamps is that if you’re prone to losing things they are attached to the collar so you can be sure to find it your sex toys all in one place.
These Nipple Suckers Mix Things Up
Less intense than the nipple clamps we have seen these nipple suckers are secured onto your nipple with a little lube around the rim and after around 10 minutes removed to unveil perfectly plumped nipples, sensitive and ready for some run. Nipple suckers draw the blood into your nipple making nipple play much more satisfying and during breast bondage, if you already have sensitive nipples your nipples will be begging for an orgasm.
This Nipple Vibrator (it’s so intense)
I love using this vibrator on my nipples especially after using nipple clamps because they are so sensitive and using the vibrator on my stimulated nipples sends chills through my body. Nipple orgasms can become a thing combining clamps and a vibrator, you can also use your vibrator on your clitoris too for intense orgasms, and feel free to use it on other parts of your body for spine-tingling stimulation. We also use it when I am all tied up during breast bondage to teasing me with, that feels amazing. My breasts being all tied up and swollen mixed with nipple clamps and a vibrator is another level of steamy pleasure.
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Body Safe Candle Wax (you can eat it)
Pure eroticism is mixed with this body-safe candle wax (you can get the candle here), lots of people experiment with candle wax it’s actually called ‘wax play’. The hot wax stimulates the senses and it feels great, however, people usually don’t just use normal candles as these get way too hot and they do burn, they buy special candles like this one that’s body-safe. Mine turns into an oil which means you can use it to rub into the body and enjoy a nice massage or during breast bondage. My boyfriend pours it over my swollen breasts, coating them in warm wax as he watches me moan out, completely at his mercy.
Breast Bondage Techniques
Below we are going to look at some of the best bondage rope techniques but first I wanted to give you a few little tips on how to have the best time during breast bondage.
Safeword – Make sure you have a safeword, this is so important. Knowing if it’s actually hurting or if you’re sub is in trouble is key and having a safeword allows you both to get straight to the source of the problem.
Finger measure – When you first start out with breast bondage don’t tie your ropes up too tight, keep about a finger width between the rope and the breast, just loose enough where you can slide your finger in. You don’t want it too tight.
Discoloration – Slight redness is normal but discoloration like purple is bad and it does mean that circulation is at risk unless you are with an absolute professional don’t let it get this far.
Pain – Once your breasts are out of the rope they will hurt, allow them to breathe and rest for about 10 minutes after removing the ropes.
Lightheadedness – As blood circulation is cut off the sub may experience lightheaded, keep an eye on this as it’s not good and it doesn’t mean you’re having great bondage play. Never let it get this far.
10 mins max – When you’re getting used to breast bondage play with the ropes for a maximum of 10 minutes.
Just have fun, relax and look after your sub and with that, you will experience great erotic pleasure and stimulation.
The first breast bondage technique to use:
The shoelace method is really easy, you can use ropes if you prefer (I do) but it works the same whether you use shoelaces or ropes. As you can see it may take you a couple of goes on your first time but once you get the hang of it it’s very easy to do.
The second technique to master:
This simple chest bondage is a little harder to master but once mastered you can restrain the breasts with ease and look like a dominant master with this kind of expert knot.
More advanced techniques:
A little more advanced but again, it’s not hard to master. It’s a fun knot to play with and it feels good on the sub, remember always keep a small pair of scissors on hand in case you need to get your sub out quickly.
How My Boyfriend Gives Me Nipple Orgasms
Ugh, I love nipple orgasms. Using a combination of breast bondage, nipple clamps, lube, oil and a massage vibrator he is able to bring me to orgasm using just my nipples alone. Yes, it’s harder than a clitoral or g-spot orgasm but the pay off is so worth it. Combine the sex toys above and enjoy nipple stimulation on another level.
If you have any questions feel free to leave them in the comment section below.
Jerry Hannon says
Hi there. I found this section on breast bondage very useful. My wife is 51 and I am 50. We have always had a very good sex life. We share the same sexual brain and have the same thirst for adventure and new experiences. I have always been the type to have my nipples played with roughly, and while she was always ready to give me the treatment that I needed, she didn’t enjoy being in the receiving end. Until a year ago. For whatever reason, I tried some firm pinching on her nipples, and she responded to it in a positive way. From then on, I continued to push and be rough. I went a little farther each time. It got to the point where we established a safe word because we discussed her new found affinity for breast and nipple play, and while we both wanted to push her limits and find where they were, I never wanted to truly hurt her. Now, part of the pleasure (maybe all of it) IS to hurt her nipples. The pain feels good. As I’m sure that you are far more experienced than we are, you know that there is a difference between a “good” hurt, and a “bad” hurt. Our next logical move was to seek information from wonderful sources such as your website. We feel as though we want to expand into light bondage. Knowing us, we will want to build in that more and more. The exquisite pleasure that can only come from pain, is something we want to explore very deeply. It’s helping to keep our sex life new and fresh, though we feel like if we could go back in time, we would explore this much sooner. So, we hope to reference your site for knowledge, ideas, techniques, and us it as a guide to take us to unchartered excitement. Now on to the beginners bondage! Thank you
Chelie says
Wow that sounds Hot!
Evie says
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Dan says
My wife and I are interested in breast and nipple play.. without anyone teaching us.. we’ve done all you shouldn’t do lol… but found our way to pleasure. I’ve seen rope tied breast and they are always deep purple. A friend said we could use a cockring around her B cup to hold them up and make them swell… any advice on that? Silicone soft super stretch.