Updated: 08/16/2021

Threesomes can be amazing, exciting and something completely new, however, if you are unable to find a willing partner, if you just couldn’t take the leap and allow a third person into your relationship or even if you can’t find willing people you want to partake in a threesome with there are ways in which you can simulate it without any risk with just your partner.

I know amazing right? It is a way you can experience a threesome without the complications of a third person, without the necessity of opening up your relationship.

My boyfriend and I do this at least once per month, I highly recommend it as it works for us and has allowed us to really explore new things without the pressure. Anyway, let me tell you all about it further below. Make sure to also check out the sex toys that every hotwife needs.

How To Simulate a Threesome

Below I have created an in-depth guide on re-creating a threesome, using just you and your partner and a little help from some very willing sex toys.

The steps are really simple to follow and if you do them right, you will be on your way to achieving one of the most intense sex sessions of your life. A little imagination goes a long way and in this instance, it’s going to help you feel just what it’s like to be wrapped up in a threesome with just you and your partner present.

Create The Perfect Atmosphere

Creating an atmosphere is one of the most important aspects of a simulation. The room you always have sex in needs to feel different, you need to believe you’re somewhere new or you really are setting up this sexy new pad for a new visitor.

Get Some Candles: Get some candles out and scatter them around the room. On shelves, on the nightstand, by the door…Anywhere they won’t catch on to anything and where they will blend into the background and help create an atmosphere.

Put Some Music On: Music makes an atmosphere, especially in these circumstances. Create a long playlist or simply find a ready-made playlist on YouTube. I recommend slow, sexy music but this part is up to you and whatever you feel is more fitting to the mood.

Shower: Both of you have a shower beforehand and dress up for the occasion! You wouldn’t hop into bed with a stranger with just your old, run-around clothes on, would you?

Clean Bedding: Change the bedding and make sure it’s all clean and crisp. You really need to believe there is a visitor coming around.

Few Glasses Of Wine: Of course this isn’t the most recommended thing to do but if you like a little wine, have a glass or two beforehand. It will just help you to relax and let loose. Don’t get drunk or drink too much, we only need you both a little more relaxed.

I also recommend checking out sex toy kits for couples, they are a great way to build your collection and often come with lots of sex toys that you can use to simulate a threesome.

Use Your Imagination

Imagination is key when it comes to any kind of simulation. When it comes to a threesome you really need to believe it.

If you have to get into a character, do it. If you need your partner to wear a wig, do it. Anything that will help you to believe it’s really happening.

A great way to really start believing is to not talk about it, get ready in private and turn off all of the lights inside the bedroom. Meet the other person in there, begin foreplay, and then introduce your ‘third’ person.

The easiest and most effective way to do this is to invest in a sex toy and below we are going to talk about that a little more.

How To Simulate A ‘Two Man’ or ‘Two Women’ Threesome

The best and most realistic way to simulate a two-man, one-woman threesome is to invest in a sex toy. You need something that is going to be the ‘third’ person in the bed. Something that simulates a penis and something that will act as a vagina.

For you to achieve this I recommend the Robo Fuk Adjustable Sex Machine It is a little pricey but it’s well worth the money if you really do want to take this threesome fantasy to a whole new realm of pleasure:

Not only is it unisex as it comes with both a realistic dildo and a tight, authentic vagina fleshlight but it also thrusts and delivers maximum, realistic pleasure to you both. Whether you like it slow, fast, hard, or soft, this sex machine has you covered.

You can enjoy not only hands-free pleasure but also the tight realistic vagina included and the erect 7.2-inch dildo will send you into dizzy new heights. It features easy-grip control and the head is even 360 degrees rotational. It is a phenomenal piece of equipment if you have the money to spare and want something to really help you live out this fantasy.

With this sex machine, you can thrust into it (just like with a real vagina or penis) and suck your partner’s clit or dick and play with their body. Because the two attachments are so realistic and mimic the sensations of real sex, you will feel as if you are penetrating or being penetrated by the real thing.

What Other People Are Saying About This Sex Machine:

I always do this just to show you it’s not just me that loves the sex toys that I talk about. All of these reviews are 100% real and are from the LoveHoney website. If you want to see more just click here for more.

• “I would highly recommend this machine to anyone looking for one that works well for both men and women. It looks cool, it felt great for both of us and it can make so many fantasy scenarios a reality. It’s easy to maintain and store and discreet to use”.

• “When it arrived it came in a huge plain box, it was all already put together. I just had to attach the suction cups to the bottom and plug it in, then it was ready! Amazing toy, really glad I bought it and also go an adapter plug with it for free!”

• “The two attachments (dildo and male masturbator) are made very well! The dildo is soft and a good size, not too big or too little and the right length, plus it bends to reach the G-spot”

How To Simulate A ‘Two Man’ Threesome

There’s something so erotic to me about two men and a woman having sex and I know I am not alone. A lot of women (and men) fantasize about this and there are ways to do it without ever actually introducing a third person into your relationship.

Follow all of the steps above the preparation, the relaxation, and the imagination aspect of it all before moving on using the sex machine above.

The sex machine is amazing as it is unisex and it does mean you are able to both have a chance at mimicking a threesome with the opposite sex in the most realistic way I have ever come across. However, if you want something a little more affordable there are ways you can do it with some slightly less expensive sex toys and I am going to show you them below. Starting off with my favorite for simulating a two-man, one-woman threesome:

Best Realistic Dildo (I Love This Dildo)

A realistic dildo complete with a suction cup. Stick this bad boy to any flat surface and ride it like a champ whilst your partner penetrates you elsewhere or you enjoy a little fellatio.

There are so many scenarios you could conjure up with a realistic dildo that’s always hard and ready to go and simulating a threesome is definitely one of them.

You could also try some anal beads:  Beginner Anal Beads

They are slightly less intimidating than the dildo and can be used as a third-party lover nevertheless you won’t be getting the same realistic feel that you would with the dildo.

How To Simulate A ‘Two Woman’ Threesome

Just like the two guys one girl fantasy, two girls, and one guy is also a major turn-on for people around the world.

Luckily there’s a way to roleplay this fantasy and of course, it all starts with relaxing, not talking about it, and leaving everything to the imagination.

Once in the dark bedroom, you could switch on the sex machine I mentioned above and use the tight fleshlight to make your fantasies really come alive or you could try something that’s solely tailored to men such as the sex toy below:

This is the realistic vagina and ass. She’s easy to clean, use, and has ultra pink plush lips that will make you weak at the sight. She’s tight and ribbed for your pleasure and can be introduced to any bedroom. Just make sure to always lube yourself and her up before use as it does make everything a lot more pleasurable.

Use her vagina or her ass and feel her realistic sensations, her tight canals, and her gripping textures. Thrust into her as you eat out your partner, have your partner go down on her, or have your partner use her on you, you just have to use your imagination and relax.

A Final Word…

You want to leave your simulated threesome believing it was real, even if there is a little doubt at the back of your mind that someone did enter your bedroom with you and your partner, you have done it right.

Ensure you have totally at ease, your lights are off, you’re in the mood, you have the right sex toys for you and your relationship and you will be ready to go.

Next make sure you read all about the best couple sex kits, filled with everything you need for an erotic night of fantasy and passion.

Amazing Resources You Must Read

• Should You Have A Threesome? An Infographic
• Best Remote Control Vibrator
• Threesome advice – Reddit

Thank you so much for reading, have a great day.