Updated: 06/11/2020
Strap-ons allow couples to explore endless possibilities with each other. Unlike pegging sex toys, strap-ons allow both men and women to take part in wholeheartedly. Whether you’re a complete beginner, an intermediate strap-on user who has had some experience, or an advanced user I am sure you will find something you like below as these are the BEST strap-ons for couples.
Strap-ons are usually fully adjustable so that any shape or size can be comfortable wearing it, they are most likely (unless stated otherwise) unisex and usually come with one or more O-rings so that you can use more of your favorite dildos in your new harness kit.
Make sure to also check out my favorite ‘pegging sex toys‘ for even more diversity and choices. Whatever you choose make sure to relax, talk to one another and communicate properly and let go of your inhibitions.
With that being said let’s get onto the list of best strap ons!
Ideal For Advanced & Beginners, Plus It’s Unisex
This is The advanced unisex strap-on, the straps on this harness are fully adjustable so you are free to play with the size of the strap-on kit so that it fits you or your partner perfectly. Included in this wonderful 7-inch dildo whose job it is to seek out G-spots and P-spots to deliver outstanding pleasure and create wonderful sexual memories. Built into the base of the dildo is also a hole where you can slip in a vibrating bullet for increased stimulation.
There’s also 3-interchangeable O-rings for you to use with other dildos so that your harness isn’t just stuck to one dildo. Remember if you are going to use this anally or vaginally make sure to use plenty of water-based lube.
What Others Have Said:
“It’s easy to put on and looks great. This really hit all the spots and my god it just blew me away. My wife loved the feeling of being in control and really got into it.”
Hollow Strap-on For More Control And Realism
Made with kinky couples in mind this 9-inch penis extension is ideal for partners looking for something a little ‘different’. The strap-on waistband is unisex so it will fit both men and women who want to experiment and let their imaginations run wild with this ridged penis-extension. Apply plenty of water-based lube to both of you and enjoy these new kinky adventures.
This increases your girth, size and is ideal for both pegging and strap-on adventures. Be sure to read up on my favorite penis extensions.
More Opinions From Users:
“This product is near to the real thing. It’s fun using it on my partner, he loved every single bit of it. I would recommend this to couples who have very kinky and adventurous minds. With plenty of lube it slides in nice and comfy and good orgasms off this product. Brill”
King Cock Brings You To Your Knees
One of the most realistic dildos that we have come across so far, this strap-on harness kit isn’t for the faint-hearted. The dildo has life-like veins, a protruding head, a rippled shaft, and is so realistic to look at. Enjoy the 3 0-rings included so that you can switch up the dildos you play with on a daily basis, although I doubt you will want to ever leave this dildo alone.
The dildo also has a suction cup base so that you can use it hands-free on any hard and flat surface. Make sure to also check out this guide that I did on prostate sex toys.
More Opinions From Customers:
“Everything about this toy is perfect. The length, the girth, and the very realistic feel of this is just amazing. Also the fit of the strap itself, the soft leather making it comfortable and is very sexy to see my wife wearing! After a night of fun. I can honestly say this has not only stepped up our sex life but has made a positive impact on our relationship.”
Unisex And It Vibrates, Can Life Get Better Than This?
If you’re new to all of this or even if you just want something a little less intimidating than the strap-ons shown above, this unisex beginner vibrating strap-on is the best one for you. The harness comes with two silicone dildos that measure 4.25 inches and 5.25 inches, these two dildos are long enough to put pressure on your pleasure zones and don’t boast any sort of gender. However, the harness also comes with two O-rings so once you want to move up in size you can do so without having to buy another harness kit.
It’s perfect for couples who are looking to experiment with strap-ons either orally, vaginally, anally or any other scenario you want to play around with!
Other Thoughts From Users:
“My partner and I use this regularly and are never disappointed. I know I speak for a lot of women when I say one of the biggest turn-ons is seeing your partner get pleasure, and you will definitely get that from this product!”
A Starter Kit That Makes Sure You Have The Best Experience
Being unisex and all isn’t the only selling point of this strap-on harness kit it’s actually the incredible value and high-quality materials of the products. This is one of the best strap ons on this list (in my opinion), there are three dildos included all of which vary in size and made from UltraSKYN which makes them super realistic to the touch and eye.
Completely waterproof, totally adjustable for any size (up to 69 inches) and it even comes with sex toy cleaner, lube, O-rings refresh powder and two interchangeable plugs. This harness kit is also compatible with up to 70 other attachments from the Vac-U-lock collection so it’s a great investment if you’re into strap ons and are looking to do a whole lot of experimentation.
More Thoughts From Customers:
“My OH loves the real feel material and she loves the fact that she can have her fun all the while continuing to tease and deny me which in all fairness totally turns me on. This kit certainly opens up our sex life to greater fun and we are grateful to test such a great piece of kit.”
Cute And Sexy Harness To Make Things Even Better
A unisex corset-style strap-on harness is perfect for couples looking for something a little kinkier to house their dildos in. It comes with interchangeable O-rings so that you are free to use your favorite dildos with this sexy kit. The lace-up back allows you to ooze even more sex appeal whilst still being comfortable.
What Others Have Mentioned:
“The item itself is very pretty to look at and very soft. It’s really easy to put on, and also fit my girlfriend who is very petite. For a first-timer is great as it’s nowhere near as intimidating as the latex ones.”
These Vibrations Take A Strap-on To A New Level
This vibrating strap-on allows for a lot of versatile play, its hollowed-out dildo means it can be used by him or her for stimulating adventures whenever you both please. There’s even a vibrator built-in with 3 speeds and 7 patterns that emit from the very tip of the dildo which sends shivers around the body and enhances pleasure massively.
The hollow dildo is also textured for even more advanced pleasure and stimulation, so no matter your fantasy it can be fulfilled with this unisex strap-on hollow dildo kit.
Other Opinions:
“I bought it because I suffer from ED and my OH was getting frustrated. The moment she was it she wanted to try it out. In a very few minutes she came and her excitement led to me coming too. Very pleasing and we look forward to using it again.“
Ultra Realism Is Guaranteed With This One
Use this King Cock harness and dildo kit as a pegging sex toy or strap-on kit for very kinky couples out there. Enjoy 8 long and hard inches to play with, along with a realistic head and shaft with raised veins, a beautiful brown shade, and a bulbous head. The harness itself is adjustable between 25 inches and 52 inches so it should be perfect for most couples looking to try out this incredible strap-on kit.
The kit comes with a bottle of lubricant and sex toy cleaner so as soon as it arrives on your doorstep you can strap up and get going. The size of this dildo and the immense lifelike features could be slightly intimidating for beginners so I would advise this product more towards those who have tried out strap-ons before.
What Others Mentioned:
“The detailing is immense down to the texture and the detailed veins. It’s nice to touch, bendy and soft enough to slide into a well-prepared bottom with ease”
Use Any Dildo In Your Collection
This harness is built to fit any probe size so if you already have a collection of your favorite dildos and want to experiment a little more without spending a ton of money, this harness is ideal. This harness has back support, adjustable and customizable straps, and will be able to hold up anything you throw at it. Adjustable to between 22 and 70 inches, this kit is for men and women and easy to clean and use you can’t really go wrong.
More Opinions:
“It was an amazing experience, and the good quality of this product has definitely helped make it unforgettable! I would definitely recommend this to anyone interested in trying pegging for the first time, it won’t disappoint you!”
A Wonderful Kit To Start With
Made from high-quality material, this harness is adjustable between 26 inches and 50 inches and comfortable to wear so you won’t find yourself in any pain or discomfort. The dildo is made from Sil-A-Gel technology making it latex-free, odorless, non-toxic, and more. It’s ultra-realistic to the touch, veiny and erect, and making it even better is its insertable 7.5 inches to make any man or woman scream out in pleasure.
The harness fits a huge range of other Vac-U-Lock dildos, so you can use up your whole collection. The vibrating dildo also increases sensations and has your partner weak at the knees when you start hitting the right spot.
Other Things Mentioned:
“All in all we had an absolutely amazing time with this kit and even went for round two the next day when we felt a little more naughty!”
Enjoy Two For The Price Of One
Unlike anything else on this list, this strap-on double dildo set is unique in design but has a lot of kinky possibilities for couples everywhere. One end is designed to slip into the woman, with pinpoint precision and the other is free to be inserted wherever she wants.
There’s an elasticated harness so that it won’t move around disobediently and it allows the woman to move around freely pleasuring wherever she pleases. There’s even a blindfold included to really heighten sensations and excite kinky couples.
More Thoughts From Customers:
“We have both enjoyed this new (for us) act and having something that can penetrate both of us has proved to be a great deal of fun”
How To Get The Most Out Of Your Strap On
- Always always always use plenty of water-based lube, this really is so important with any sex toy but especially important when you are playing around with anal. It provides you with a lot more comfort and stops and friction or uncomfortable sensations. I really recommend this water-based Lube.
- If you have bought a realistic dildo and strap-on kit, it is recommended to apply some ‘renewer powder’ to keep them at their best and to stop them from premature aging. You can use this on anything with lifelike skin and it will help to keep them soft and like new.
- Make sure to store all of your sex toys in a clean, dry and cool place. A lot of money can be spent on these wonderful things and not caring for them properly can result in them tearing, breaking and needing to be replaced.
What About Shipping?
The sex toy store that I send you too when you click any of the products mentioned is where I buy all of my sex toys. One of the reasons they are so popular and so great is their discreet shipping policy, everything comes in a totally discreet brown box. The shipping label doesn’t have anything that suggests the contents of the box, nor does your bank statement. Also, they have a great 365-day returns policy.
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