Being a hotwife used to be an undercover, taboo subject but in more recent times admitting you are a hotwife and pursuing that kink is becoming more and more popular and people are coming forward openly and showing the world just how many hotwives there actually are. It doesn’t matter if you’re new to hotwifing or you have been a hotwife for years, in this article, I am going to show you my collection and I really hope you enjoy it.
What is a hotwife? If you are asking that let me just quickly break it down for you. A hotwife is a married woman who has other sexual partners, excluding her husband. Some times the husband can watch or receive videos or texts and he can even join in. Sometimes however is he nowhere to be seen whilst his wife goes and sleeps with someone else. Being a hotwife means you are basically being shared and your husband is all ok with it.
Sometimes a hotwife is all a fantasy, some tease their partners, telling them all of the filthy things they have done with someone and it’s all just made up for a kink.
My Hotwife Sex Toy Collection
Below I have left all of my hotwife resources and hotwife sex toy collection, it’ll help you to get onto your feet if hotwifing is something you are really interested in or even if it’s just a fantasy you want to fulfill with your partner. Some people just like to roleplay the scenarios of being a hotwife and these sex toys will help you achieve that. If you are already a hotwife you will know how sexy sex toys are when it comes to our world and I hope you can find something you love, gaining inspiration from me. If you have any questions about any of the products or about hotwifing just leave them in the comment section below.
Hotwife Dating & Meeting Bulls/New Lovers
Before you dive into my sex toy collection, I thought it would be a nice idea for you to see where you can meet new bulls/lovers. Some people rely on clubs and organizations but some prefer to go online and do it solo with complete strangers. These are the two resources I use and have had the most luck with when looking for a new bull:
- Adult friend finder The people on adult friend finder are way more understanding and a lot of them are there for the same reasons. Everyone exposes their kinks, there’s no hiding behind a smokescreen and you can get down to business without any of the silly small talks. It’s filled with great people and I love frequenting the site.
- Tinder – Tinder is another place I go to find new lovers but I prefer AFF. Tinder is a great platform but it isn’t filled with as many understanding people and I like people to really understand the kink and know my husband is my number 1. It’s a great place though and it’s fun to browse and meet people on.
You Need To Try A Penis Extender (Add extra size to your man)
A penis extender adds extra length and girth to his penis, it is secured in place and works just like a normal penis or dildo would. It’s ideal for size-play, hotwife fantasies, teasing, foreplay and making your husband use it on you so that you can remember how much bigger your other lover was compared to him.
I love this penis extender it adds up to an extra 3-inches, it’s clear so you can still see his penis inside, it secures in place thanks to the ball loop and it feels realistic and wonderful inside of you. Make your new lover wear it or your partner to experience new thrills, incredible foreplay, fantasies, and roleplay scenarios. It’s a gorgeous sex toy and a must-have even if you are not a hotwife as it can be used in any bedroom to improve the length of his penis. If you like this penis extender click here and read all about some others that I own.
Use this mega sex toy when you don’t want your hubby in your pussy. It measures a mighty 9-inches, it is veiny, realistic, girthy and it does the job. I get my husband to wear it if we don’t have a lover for me lined up and I want him to f**k me with something worthwhile. It stretches my pussy and feels amazing, it always reminds me of being a good hotwife. It is also unisex so if you are into strap-on play, you can use it on one another freely as it is fully adjustable and a challenge for any hole. Click here to read more about strap-ons and the benefits for couples.
Fake Cum Lube (Amazing for teasing my hubby)
My partner goes wild for this stuff, it looks just like cum when it comes out and it’s great for those who want to roleplay. I will squirt it on my pussy and tits and have my partner find it, it drives him wild thinking I have been with someone else and they have cum all over me and I haven’t even cared enough to clean it up. It’s also great if you have actually been with someone else but you want to emphasize the cum stains, it’s a real winner in my eyes and I always stock up on this stuff.
If you want to take simulation and cuckolding/threesomes to a whole new level you need to check out this sex-machine. It’s unisex so it comes with a lifelike dildo and a fleshlight, it is fully adjustable and it adjusts 360 degrees so you can get a perfect position. The thrusts are controlled through a scroll wheel and you can enjoy a nice, slow thrust or a ramp it up and enjoy this sex machine at full speed. It’s ideal for those looking to experiment, those who want to take their simulating sessions to another dimension and for those looking to experiment with a little hotwife/threesome roleplay. With this sex-machine, you can also learn how to have a threesome with just two people, click here to read more about that.
A veiny, textured, girthy shaft awaits you with this incredible dildo. It comes with a suction cup base so that you can secure it down and use it to tease your partner. Ride it like a professional and when you’re ready to make it cum inside of you or on you. It’s ideal to complete the simulation of a bukkake, creampie, facial, threesome or anything else you can think of. The semen is ultra-realistic ‘nut butter’ that will satisfy your urge for cum and will complete your sexy simulation.
Some hotwives like to cage their partner up before meeting their lover, knowing they are restricted and at the mercy of them is a huge turn on. Others enjoy the fantasy of the happening and others like to play with themselves, imagining they are with someone else whilst their partner is locked away. Whatever your reasons, this cock cage is strong, sturdy and will keep your partner’s cock firmly locked away and constrained until you decide to unlock it. I love this cock cage for a variety of reasons, it gets a lot of use in our house.
Some women prefer to be a hotwife from the comfort of their own home without ever having to meet anyone. The way they do this is by finding guys online and they get off with them while their husband watches.
They will set up a webcam, use sex toys, tease the person on the other side of the camera, have an amazing orgasm all whilst their husband sits out of view and observes the unfolding events. Sometimes he won’t even be in the same room.
If you don’t want to use cam sites, which is totally understand use adult friend finder or swing lifestyle, let them know your plans, explain you’re a hotwife and then add them on Skype and get off together. It’s really simple and such a thrill for everyone involved.
Doing it all alone is also really non-invasive and if you don’t like you can just turn your cam off. Make sure to speak to your partner beforehand, learn what is going to happen and talk it through so that no problems are going to arise afterward.
Some people use cam sex with a stranger as a gateway into hotwifing, it sometimes leads into them meeting people in real life so if you are just starting out having sex on cam, it may spark a desire to do it in real life.
What’s in your hotwife collection?
I am so intrigued by you! If you are a hotwife what’s in your collection? Does it look like mine? Are they are any essentials I should be including that aren’t included? What do you think? Let me know in the comments below, I love love love hearing from you.