Ah… the art of giving an amazing blowjob is something that some people find quite hard to master. Some people feel like they don’t have the right technique, some people think they are doing it all wrong and some people just don’t know what their partner likes and enjoys.
Fellatio or better known as ‘blowjobs’ are so much fun to me and I love exploring and finding new things that my partner enjoys so, I am going to share some of my most ‘guaranteed to work’ techniques with you.
Also remember that If you really want to blow his mind combine the tips below with using one of my partner’s favorite pocket pussies, best blowjob ever, every single time.
How To Give An Amazing Blowjob
So, you want to give better head, but don’t know where to start, well you’ve come to the right place.
Below is everything you’ll need to give your man the best blowjob of his life. Read my tips and advice, read it again, relax and put it into practice. It’s all a matter of just doing what feels right, being confident and having fun.
Use Lubrication And Make It Wet
The art of giving amazing fellatio all begins with lube. If you have never tried it before, you have too. I recommend this lube that’s safe with sex toys and condoms or this flavoured lube that tastes out of this world.
Both of these lubes taste good and last for ages, which means you don’t have to keep on re-applying.
The reason I urge you to try using lube is that it feels incredible for the man. It stops friction and the lubrication allows your hand and/or mouth to glide over his penis with ease. It will also be such a sexy surprise if you have never used it during a blowjob or handjob before.
All you really need to do is apply a small amount between your hands (warm it up a little between your hands first) and begin by giving him a handjob, make your way down to the penis when you’re ready and he has been teased enough and it will not only taste amazing but his penis will be all nice and slippery which feels great for him and it makes your task easier.
If lube is out of the question to try using your own saliva. This may sound disgusting to some but it’s a natural lubricant and the wetness of it will feel nice on his penis.
Start Teasing Him
I cannot express enough that teasing him is the way to go if you want your fellatio techniques to feel like something straight out of a porno.
Caress his penis, grab his penis from outside of his underwear and most of all go down to give him a blowjob, avoiding the tip altogether.
All of this teasing, especially the last tip, will drive him absolutely insane and it will make any sensation over the head of his penis absolutely incredible from then on. I also really recommend getting some deep throat spray, it will stop you from gagging and allows you to take his penis like an absolute pro.
Communicate With Your Man
Let him tell you what feels good and what doesn’t. Have a chat beforehand and let him open up about what he really likes. Even make him show you with his own hand what turns him on and feels good.
If you don’t have the conversation, respond to his body. If he is clearly enjoying something don’t stop and if he isn’t responding to how you would like him to, change things up.
Let him know that you are enjoying yourself too, ask him if he wants you to go deeper, slower, quicker or harder. He should be massively turned on by your enthusiasm so, don’t feel shy at all about asking what he wants.
Take Full Charge
Pin his arms above his head and command him not to move. Take full control of the situation and don’t be afraid to be assertive if he disobeys.
Taking charge is something a lot of men want women to do during fellatio so don’t be shy to really get into the role. This will work even better if you are usually the submissive role during sex and foreplay.
Forget all of your inhibitions and just go for it, it will be an instant turn on.
Does He Like Eye Contact?
Some men love it, some men hate it. I personally can find it to sometimes be a little awkward but a quick glance up every now and again is really sexy and it also makes you aware too if he’s enjoying it.
If he likes eye contact, don’t just stare at him the whole time, look down at his penis and glance up at him every time he moans.
If he doesn’t like eye contact, make your contact subtle and even go under the covers so that you don’t have to worry about both of you looking at each other.
Use Your Hands
Hands are key to an amazing blowjob. Use them in time with your mouth on his penis for the bit you can’t reach the bottom of his shaft.
Use them to caress his balls or to even play with yourself. They really can make a blowjob 10x better, especially slathered up with lubrication.
Get Some Amazing Flavoured Lube
The flavor is more for you than him. If you like the taste, you are guaranteed to get more into it which of course is key to a good bit of fellatio filled foreplay.
I love this lube and really recommend if you’re looking for something tasty, it’s also water-based so it’s safe to use with condoms and sex toys.
Stop And Start, Build Him Up
Get him to the point of orgasm and then stop and do this a few times. It’s frustrating but it will make for a massive orgasm when you do finally allow him to cum.
I would advise you to let him know what you are planning beforehand or it could get a little awkward!
Use Your Tongue
Don’t just do up and down rhythms! Make sure to get your tongue involved too. Use it to flick around the head of his penis, to lick up and down his shaft and against his shaft during the ‘blowing’.
Your tongue feels amazing and it will drive him wild if used in the correct, sweet spots.
Let Him Touch And See You
If you’re giving a blowjob, don’t be afraid to remove your shirt or stop now and again to ride up against him. We are all visual creatures and something as simple as him seeing you remove your shirt and using his free hand to caress you will seriously put him in another universe of pure pleasure.
Slow Or Quick? Test The Water
If there’s no time to ask him what he likes, start slow and build up to quick movements. Nevertheless, make sure to watch to see how he responds. Some men like it quick at first and then slow as they climax, so either ask him what he likes or what he prefers or just see how he responds to your movements and when you change things up.
Use Surprise As An Element
Everyone loves some surprise oral sex. Don’t let him know about your fellatio plans, grab him when he comes out of the shower or first thing on a morning.
Sex shouldn’t be planned and if you catch him off guard it will be so unexpected that it will contribute to being some of the best fellatio he has ever had in his life.
Sex toys are also a great way to give amazing head, especially if you’re in a relationship where blowjobs aren’t really too prevalent. Below I am going to leave some of my favourites to check out, they simulate a blowjob so if you suck at giving them, don’t like giving them or just have a gag reflex that you would rather not provoke, these could be the key to some seriously awesome head.
This Realistic Blowjob Will Blow His Mind
This blowjob simulator will really get things going for you both, apply plenty of water-based lube and insert your penis into the inviting realistic mouth, slide past the teeth, textured realistic tongue and all the way down the throat for a deep throat, incredibly realistic and mind-blowing sensations. Use it alone or with your partner to really mimic the sensations of a professional and sloppy blowjob. Make sure to also check out the most realistic sex toys for men.
Non-Anatomical Fleshlight For All Fantasies
With a discreet outer casing, this fleshlight is unreal and once you open it you’ll discover a mouth like hole ready to be used. Slide deep into her plush and gorgeous lips and discover the wonderfully textured canal. Experiment with temperature play, suction and kinky scenarios with this blowjob simulating sex toy for men.
You Will Not Gag With This Spray
I did mention this deep throat spray in one of the tips below but I did just want to include it down here too as it does change the game of giving fellatio. If a sex toy isn’t for you this numbing spray is ideal for people who struggle with their gag reflex and those who are desperate to really insert as much as his member as possible. This spray temporarily numbs the throat so you can unleash your inner pornstar at the press of a button.
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Thank you so much for reading, I hope you found some of the tips helpful!