Making a guy cum can be so pleasurable, not just for them but for you as well. Being able to turn him on by just suggesting a hand or blow job and seeing the pleasure in his eyes in the first few seconds is something a lot of women value.
However, it can sometimes begin to feel like a chore if he doesn’t cum very quickly and your mouth starts to ache and your mind begins to wonder…
So I made this article. All about making a guy cum and cum quickly he shall.
I love making my partner cum quickly, there’s something about it that just turns me on and I am going to share my tips with you. Things that I do to make any guy cum fast, efficiently and intensely.
If you’re looking to make him cum fast during sex, all of the tension and build up from these tips will work too!
How To Make Him Cum In Minutes:
Let Him Know He Can Cum
This may seem obvious but some men can get shy about cumming especially if you’re giving him a blowjob. If it’s a new relationship or just a hook up be sure to tell him that it’s okay to cum in your mouth or not okay, whatever the case may be.
Tell him that you want him to cum and that it will really turn you on when he does. I don’t know why this works but it does and it helps the guy relax and feel at ease.
It may seem silly but women need to be relaxed to be able to orgasm and usually, so does a guy.
Letting him know that you want him to be at ease and feeling pleasure, is a huge turn on and if he’s into that kind of talk, it will probably speed up the climax by about 70%.
Giving Him The Most Incredible Blow Job
It’s no secret that 99% of men prefer blowjobs over handjobs so if you’re willing to do it, give him the best blowjob he has ever had in his life.
Don’t be shy about really getting into it. Moaning slightly, a little eye contact and just letting go when performing, will not only probably turn you on, he will most likely cum there and then.
However, here are some, even more, tips that I use to make any gum come really fast:
This lube is an absolute gem when it comes to blowjobs. It feels incredible for the man and if you get one that has a flavor, it will taste great for you too.
I am going to talk about making his penis ‘wet’ a bit further on but, for now, know that using lubrication will change your whole blowjob game entirely.
Add a small amount to your hands and warm it up before applying it to his penis. Lather it on with your hands and just watch his eyes roll back into this head.
Get Some Deep Throat Spray:
Deep-throating feels out of this world (so I am told) however, most of us have a gag reflex that will detonate a very unattractive human bodily function should it be poked and prodded one too many times.
Deep throat spray is inexpensive and will allow you to perform the most amazing deep throated blowjobs imaginable. The spray numbs the back of your throat, thus numbing your gag reflex for some time.
If you are able to use the lube technique, the deep throat technique and maintain tongue techniques and rhythm, this man will cum so fast.
Deep Throat Technique:
Going straight in for the killer will higher the time in which he climaxes. Make sure to tease him before going in for the deep throat technique.
You can do this by slowly flicking, sucking and licking the head of his penis, running your tongue up and down his shaft and if he likes it, by playing with this balls.
Once he just can’t take it much longer, insert his penis into your mouth as far down as you can and maintain a quick up and down rhythm, he will orgasm, hard.
Make It Wet:
Making his penis wet and slippery will seriously make him ejaculate into oblivion. Using the lube technique I mentioned before, glide your slippery hands over his member and tease the tip of his penis.
It feels incredible and actually makes the blowjob a lot more pleasurable for the both of you too. I also recommendmy fav lube for this step.
Use Your Hands:
Don’t forget to use your hands during a blowjob. Use them to play with his balls and/or to move his member up and down in time with your sucking.
Giving Him An Amazing Handjob
If you or he isn’t into blowjobs, don’t worry. A handjob is also a sure way of making a guy cum quickly. You just need a good rhythm, technique and teasing abilities.
Lubrication is your friend:
Just like during the blowjob, lubrication is a major deal-breaker. A warm, slippery, wet hand feels so much better than dry friction.
You only need a small amount and if you ever never used it during a handjob before, you will notice the huge difference it makes to the way he responds to each touch.
Amazing Blowjob Techniques:
Get him to tell you beforehand what he likes. Does he like it quick? slow? ball play?
Respond to his body, play with the tip of his penis and if you want an extra quick orgasm, tease him beforehand. You can do this by grabbing his penis and then not touching it, you can do this also by teasing him on the outside of his underwear and so on.
Some More Tips On Making Him Cum Quickly…
Just like women, there are some things that drive men wild, below are my last tips on helping you make him cum in record-breaking time.
Let Him Feel Your Body
A lot of women forget to use their own bodies during blow or hand jobs. When giving him a handjob, kiss his neck, let him feel your intimate areas and respond to his touch.
Playing With The Balls
If he likes it, this should drive him insane. Some men have never ever tried it and insist they don’t like it but it’s usually a sure way to making him cum.
Gently caress, lick, stroke and suck on his balls whilst maintaining a good handjob rhythm. Don’t be shy and if you see him squirm or not like it, stop.
Be Sure To Tease Him
Just like I mentioned before, teasing is key to good foreplay and a good, happy orgasm. Touch him throughout the day without allowing him to cum, get him hot and really in the mood and refuse to allow him to cum. It really is a huge turn on for a lot of guys and you will be surprised at how quickly he will cum if he has been teased and built up for some time.
Be Enthusiastic About Sex And Pleasuring Him
Just like as if a guy going down on you who wasn’t really into it wouldn’t feel great, it’s the same for men. If you’re not up for it, you have no obligation to do anything but, if you’re into having sex or giving oral sex, really be enthusiastic.
Nothing’s a bigger turn-on than someone who wants to give you so much pleasure. Groan, play with yourself or even just get really into it and let yourself go.
Thank you so much for reading!