Making a guy cum can be so pleasurable, not just for them but for you as well. Being able to turn him on by just suggesting a hand or blow job and seeing the pleasure in his eyes in the first few seconds is something a lot of women value.
However, it can sometimes begin to feel like a chore if he doesn’t cum very quickly and your mouth starts to ache and your mind begins to wander and before you know it you are wishing for him to just hurry up and cum and the mood just feels totally ruined.
For me making my partner cum quickly isn’t about getting it over and done with, oh no, it’s about giving him so much pleasure that he just can’t hold on any longer and he just has to cum. That sort of power and skill is electrifying and I wanted to share it with you all.
So I made this article. All about making a guy cum and cum quickly he shall.
I love making my partner cum quickly, there’s something about it that just turns me on and I am going to share my tips with you. Things that I do to make any guy cum fast, efficiently and intensely.
If you’re looking to make him cum fast during sex, (you should check out this: How To Make Your Vagina Tighter) all of the tension and build-up from these tips will work too!
How To Make Him Cum In Minutes:
Let Him Know He Can Cum
This may seem obvious but some men can get shy about cumming especially if you’re giving him a blowjob. If it’s a new relationship or just a hook up be sure to tell him that it’s okay to cum in your mouth or not okay, whatever the case may be.
Tell him that you want him to cum and that it will really turn you on when he does. I don’t know the science as to why this works but it does and it helps the guy relax and feel at ease. It may seem silly but women need to be relaxed to be able to orgasm and usually, so does a guy. So make him feel comfortable, let him know you want to pleasure him, tell him to let you know what he likes and be sure to let him know that you want him to cum.
Letting him know that you want him to be at ease and feeling pleasure, is a huge turn on and if he’s into that kind of talk, it will probably speed up the climax by about 70%. It really is such a simple trick and it even works long into a relationship, the turn-on is instant if you tell your partner you want to make them happy and feel their cum on you/in you. Make him feel wanted and if you are a particularly kinky couple check out these sex kits, you can use things from them to restraint and tease your partner even more so, making him beg for your touch.
Giving Him The Most Incredible Blow Job
It’s no secret that 99% of men prefer blowjobs over handjobs so if you’re willing to do it, give him the best blowjob he has ever had in his life.
Don’t be shy about really getting into it. Moaning slightly, a little eye contact, be enthusiastic and just letting go when sucking his dick and doing what feels right, will not only probably turn you on, he will most likely cum there and then. To make it even better, ask him what he likes or would like you to try, it may be that he loves the tip of his penis having all focus, it may be that he likes spit or loves having his balls played with, you just have to ask.
Remember that making a guy cum fast isn’t about bobbing or thrusting as fast as you can, it’s a skill and one that doesn’t require you to furiously pump away at his penis.
However, here are some, even more, tips that I use to make any guy come really fast whilst still making sure they have an incredible orgasm:
This lube is an absolute lifesaver when it comes to blowjobs. It feels incredible for the man as it mimics the body’s natural lubrication and it is so natural, so you know exactly what you are putting into your mouth. I wrote a whole article about it if you are interested in the specifics of this natural lube.
I am going to talk about making his penis ‘wet’ a bit further on in this article but, for now, know that using a little lubrication will change your whole blowjob game entirely.
Add a small amount to your hands and warm it up by rubbing your hands together before applying it to his penis. Lather it on with your hands and just watch his eyes roll back into this head as you move your hands up and down his penis, it takes handjobs to another level, by using lube there’s no friction on his penis and it allows your hand to just glide. During a blowjob, it just adds an extra layer of lubrication and it feels wonderful for him.
Get Some Deep Throat Spray:
Deep-throating feels out of this world (so I am told) however, most of us have a gag reflex that will detonate a very unattractive human bodily function should it be poked and prodded one too many times. Many people shy away from deep throating as it leads to gagging but there is a little miracle that can prevent that.
This Deep throat spray is inexpensive and will allow you to perform the most amazing deep-throated blowjobs imaginable. The spray numbs the back of your throat (temporarily!), thus numbing your gag reflex for some time. I have a pretty bad gag reflex but with this stuff working at the back of my throat, I can take a dick down without even a problem. That deep-throating sensation for him is revolutionary and will send his dick into overdrive.
If you are able to use the lube technique (adding a modest amount to his dick), the deep throat technique and maintain tongue techniques and rhythm, this man will cum so fast.
Deep Throat Technique:
Going straight in for the kill by deepthroating his cock instantly will higher the time in which he climaxes. Yes, he will cum and it’ll feel great for him but without a little teasing and foreplay, it will take longer for him to cum which is what we are trying to prevent. Make sure to tease him and his dick before going in for the deep throat technique.
You can do this by slowly flicking, sucking and licking the head of his penis, running your tongue up and down his shaft and if he likes it, by playing with this balls. You can ask him dirty questions (do you want my pretty mouth to suck your cock?), keep him on his toes as much as possible before deepthroating. Teasing his cock and getting him on the edge is key.
Once he just can’t take your teasing much longer, insert his penis into your mouth as far down as you can and maintain a quick up and down rhythm, using your tongue too, making sure your teeth are firmly out of the way, he will orgasm, hard and fast.
Make It Wet:
Making his penis wet and slippery will seriously make him ejaculate into oblivion. Using the lube technique I mentioned before, glide your slippery hands over his member and tease the tip of his penis.
It feels incredible and actually makes the blowjob a lot more pleasurable for both of you too. I also recommend my most-used flavored lube for this step as it makes it more pleasurable for you as you get a tasty, sweet treat.
Use Your Hands:
Don’t forget to use your hands during a blowjob. Use them to play with his balls and/or to move his member up and down in time with your sucking. If you add in some lube to this step, from the second you touch him his dick will go wild with sensation. Once his dick is in your mouth, using your hands to stimulate his shaft and balls will feel incredible for him.
Giving Him An Amazing Handjob
If you or he isn’t into blowjobs, don’t worry. A handjob is also a sure way of making a guy cum quickly. You just need good rhythm, technique and teasing abilities. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t going to blow him, a wet slippery handjob is amazing so be sure to add lube (this one lasts for ages) to make it amazing for him.
Lubrication is your friend:
Just like during the blowjob, lubrication is a major deal-breaker. A warm, slippery, wet hand feels so much better than dry friction.
You only need a small amount and if you ever never used it during a handjob before, you will notice the huge difference it makes to the way he responds to each touch.
Amazing Blowjob Techniques:
Get him to tell you beforehand what he likes. Does he like it quickly? slow? ball play? Communication is key to a great orgasm.
Respond to his body, play with the tip of his penis and if you want an extra quick orgasm, tease him beforehand. You can do this by grabbing his penis and then not touching it, you can do this also by teasing him on the outside of his underwear and so on.
Some More Tips On Making Him Cum Quickly…
Just like women, there are some things that drive men wild, below are my last tips on helping you make him cum in record-breaking time.
Let Him Feel Your Body
A lot of women forget to use their own bodies during a blow or handjobs. When giving him a handjob, kiss his neck, let him feel your intimate areas and respond to his touch. For instance if you’re kissing his neck, guide his hand to your pussy or breasts, let him play with you. Grind up on his cock and then slowly make your way down, kissing his chest and stomach all the way.
Playing With The Balls
If he likes it, this should drive him insane. Some men have never ever tried it and insist they don’t like it but it’s usually a sure way to making him cum.
Gently caress, lick, stroke and suck on his balls whilst maintaining a good handjob rhythm. Don’t be shy and if you see him squirm or not like it, stop. Adding in ball play will give him a whole new sensation to deal with that will make his penis even more sensitive to your touch.
Be Sure To Tease Him
Just like I mentioned before, teasing is key to good foreplay and a good, happy orgasm. Touch him throughout the day without allowing him to cum, get him hot and really in the mood and refuse to allow him to cum. It really is a huge turn-on for a lot of guys and you will be surprised at how quickly he will cum if he has been teased and built up for some time. You can even tease him with a specifically male sex toy and not let him cum.
Be Enthusiastic About Sex And Pleasuring Him
Just like as if a guy going down on you who wasn’t really into it wouldn’t feel great, it’s the same for men. If you’re not up for it, you have no obligation to do anything but, if you’re into having sex or giving oral sex, really be enthusiastic.
Nothing’s a bigger turn-on than someone who wants to give you so much pleasure. Groan, play with yourself or even just get really into it and let yourself go. Remember he finds it hot, don’t be shy, confidence is key.
Thank you so much for reading! If you have any tips of your own that you want to add feel free to leave them in the comment section below.