Updated – 07/09/2020
Woman aren’t as complex as many men like to think, making us horny really isn’t very hard. There are times where any of us as humans aren’t ‘in the mood’ but when we are in the mood and want to have sex, it’s not hard, mathematical or complex in order to make us horny.
There are just a few very simple things you can do to make us even hornier. It’s really that simple. Just like with guys, if you do some simple techniques and say the right things, you will become aroused.
After years and years of learning about my body and learning about what I want and what I like, I think it’s time to share the things that make me horny, the things that put me in the mood and the things that I appreciate when it comes to sex and foreplay.
Be Romantic & Create The Setting
Expecting anyone to feel relaxed on dirty sheets, an unmade bed and an unkept room is not ideal and will usually turn even the most sexual people off. You don’t have to sprinkle love hearts everywhere but create a bit of a relaxing and calm atmosphere.
Change the sheets, make the bed, light some candles and if you have the room even make a fort for you both to dive into. Have snacks at the ready, drinks cooling in the fridge and a movie at the ready, put some effort in and Netflix and chill.
Make It All About HER
Go down on her, make her cum first. Caress her, kiss her, embrace her and make her feel amazing before you even begin to think about yourself. Let her know as soon as things start to ‘lift-off’ that it’s all about her today and she can cum as many times as wants.
Knowing that you can just relax and be aware that your partner is getting just as much enjoyment from pleasuring you as you are from being pleasured is a serious turn on for me and it makes me super horny.
Of course, to do this you have to make her horny first but by doing everything on this list, it will come and so will she.
Introduce Her To Something New
Guys, we love you but sex toys can do things that we could never of dreamt of before. Using a sex toy to get us off doesn’t mean you’re no longer needed it just means we can enjoy orgasms at the same pace and they feel absolutely incredible.
Buy her this simple vibrator, it’s non-intimidating, small and works wonders on the clitoris. When you get talking, let her know you have bought her a gift and once she feels the vibrations she will want to try it out then and there.
Let Her Know What She Does To You
If you’re in a relationship, let her know during the day that you’re thinking about her and what it’s doing to you. When you see her subtly let her know what that dress is doing to you, be vocal about what’s running through your mind when you’re sat down to dinner. Flattering her will make her horny and make her feel good about herself.
Something else that really turns me on and makes me horny is if I am pleasuring a guy and they start moaning and telling me how good it feels and how good I look, it’s such a turn on for me and makes me wild in the bedroom.
Kinky Couple
If she’s up for it, try out some vibrating panties (I did a whole post on them here), tell her to put them on and watch her face as you play with the vibrations over your favorite pizza. It is a bit of fun and seriously not for the shy amongst us but almost climaxing for an hour and climaxing in public seriously gets me hot under the collar and makes me super horny.
The one with the remote has all of the control over the speed and vibrations and once you feel how good it feels against your vagina and how good it feels to be out in public with nobody knowing what’s going on aside from you two, it’s a massive turn on. Using vibrating panties makes me really horny and once I have had enough I just can’t wait to get home and UNLEASH.
Food
Some women get turned on just at the thought of food (me!) but in all seriousness, food can be a great way to make someone horny. There are things called aphrodisiacs that help to boost libido (our sex drive) when consumed, some of these common foods are:
- Chocolate
- Oysters
- Asparagus
- Chillies
- Celery
- Pomegranate
- Maca
- Watermelon
Cook her dinner and include some of these aphrodisiacs to boost libido. There’s plenty of recipes online that incorporate lots of libido boosting foods, so get your chefs whites on and get cooking.
Pick The Right Movie
This may not work for every woman but I know if I am watching a movie filled with sex scenes, filth and hot intense moments it makes me horny. Therefore go online and do some research, find a movie genre that she likes and find a movie with the hottest love scenes.
To make this work even better, make sure the environment is relaxed, the room is dark or lit by a single candlelight and ensure she is comfy.
Ask Her What Turns Her On
If you’re in a position where this is possible, ask her what she likes. Don’t ask her straight up what she likes in bed but do it subtly, ask her about her kinks, things she would like to try and things she has never tried.
Everyone loves to talk about sex and if you are both relaxed, the conversation will keep on flowing and eventually you can ask her if she wants to try out one of her kinks and if you can try out the thing that turns her on the most.
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