Getting a sexy gift for the holidays, birthdays, thanksgiving, valentines day or even just ‘because’ is always a winner in our relationship. You can use it together if it’s a sex toy, wear it for them if it’s some lingerie or a roleplay outfit and even send each other saucy texts all about this new gift. I love sexual gifts, it allows you both to bond over it and it always goes down a treat for us.
Below I have listed all of my favorite sexy gifts for both men and women, all are ideal as stocking stuffers, birthday gifts, anniversary sexy gifts and just about any other special occasion you can think of. I hope this list satisfies your needs and you find something they are going to love if you need any more help picking something for your special someone make sure to leave your comments in the comment section below and I will get back to you ASAP.
Sexy Gifts For Him
Let’s start off this list with the men! I have compiled 6 all of my all-time sexy gifts for you and put them all below, I hope you love it as much as my boyfriend did.
Let’s kick things off with a penis extender. I wrote this article on the best dick extenders that will give you a bit more insight into the wonderful world of penis extenders however if you want a quick summary, they are so easy to use. You slip it over your penis and it can add up to an extra 3-inches to your length and extra girth to your shaft.
It’s a realistic shape for authenticity and made from a clear material so you can see your penis through it. It secures in place, you don’t have worry about it falling off, it also feels GREAT for her, I love it when my boyfriend wears it, it slides all up inside of me and feels like a totally different penis.
I got my boyfriend his first fleshlight years ago but he just loves this stoya masturbator, he comes back to it every single time. He didn’t know the adult actress ‘Stoya’ before I bought him this fleshlight but he sure as hell knows her now. He uses this fleshlight alone and with me, I love watching him using it.
It’s made from SuperSkin so it feels ultra-realistic, the internal length is 9-inches so it can accommodate most me, it’s also lined with bumps, ridges and other stimulating textures so you can be sure of a delicious submersion once inside. The external labia is also highly realistic and it makes me horny touching it and lubing it up for my boyfriend. It’s also incredibly easy to clean with its removable sleeve.
Fun, easy, useful, and a great price. I love getting my boyfriend sachets of lube like these, they give you a great assortment of different flavors and types of lubes. It comes with 12 different sachets with 2 of each variety so you can truly test out if you really like a particular lube or not.
Having all of these different lubes is really useful and makes for a great excuse to escape to the bedroom and give one a whirl.
Your male partner can use this massager during sex or for solo sessions, it’s an insane prostate massager. My boyfriend loves this sex toy, he was uneasy at first but getting over that initial thing of ‘anal sex toys’ and realizing they feel damn good, you don’t have to be shy about your butt hole was a big step for him but once he unleashed that first prostate orgasm he was hooked.
We don’t use this prostate massager together, he likes to use it alone but I have seen him using it whilst I was using something else and it was a festival of cum and delight. It stimulates your P-spot and massages your perineum, delivering mind-blowing orgasms at the touch of a button for men.
On the pricey side but if you have a bigger budget, Alana vagina and butt is sensational. She is made from real-feel TPE material, making her realistic to the touch, she is heavy and stable so you can place her just about anywhere and she has a full-scale pussy and ass that you are free to enjoy.
Plunging into her tight pink pussy or her tight wet ass always makes my boyfriend moan, we use her together, stimulating threesomes and playing with her body. My boyfriend loves watching me going down on her and I love watching him fuck her, it’s been a great bonding experience for us.
Made from natural ingredients this delay spray temporarily numbs your penis, allowing you to last longer in bed. You only need a small amount on your penis to feel its effects, which are always appreciated. It gives you more confidence that you’re not just going to cum instantly and it’s always fun to last a little bit longer.
Sexy Gifts For Her
Now it’s time for the women, I am going to include all of the best female sexual gifts that were very much welcomed into my arms. I didn’t include any lingerie in the gifts below but if lingerie is your girl’s thing be sure t check out this article I wrote: Lingerie sets I love
You cannot go wrong with a rabbit vibrator (unless your girl hates internal stimulation), this Jessica rabbit vibrator is a classic and loved by thousands upon thousands of people.
It features a rotating shaft that has 3 different speeds and is reversible and it has external stimulation thanks to the ‘bunny ears’, this clitoral stimulator features 3 speeds and 7 delectable patterns. You can enjoy blended stimulation with this rabbit vibrator, g-spot and clitoral orgasms at your fingertips. It feels beautiful inside of you and always makes my legs tremble and my pussy explode with orgasms, it’s a classic sex toy that has just innovated itself time and time again.
I am forever grateful to womanizer for creating something so wonderful. I am a massive fan of clitoral stimulation and this powerful little sex toy is ideal for women like me. It stimulates your clit without actually touching or making it overly sensitive, so you can cum again and again.
It gently sucks your clit and delivers vibrations that push you over the edge every single time. It’s non-intimidating and so easy to use, you can also use it during sex if you want to try out mutual orgasms with your partner. It’s the perfect little sex toy gift for women who want to try something new with the knowledge that a strong, knee-trembling clitoral orgasm awaits them.
Infused with peppermint and essential oils this orgasm balm promotes blood flow to the clitoris which in turn makes your clit more responsive and your orgasms more intense. The increased blood flow makes my clit throb with pleasure and makes each touch, even more, oh so satisfying.
Another one of the best gifts I have ever been given. This is a plug-in wand vibrator (you have probably heard of the ‘Hitachi’ wand before), it features a scroll wheel that increases and decreases vibrations, these strong vibrations radiate throughout the oversized head of the vibrator and spread themselves over your entire vagina.
The long plug-in cord is very useful and it also means you’re never going to run out of power when using your vibrator. I find I can cum again and again when using this wand vibrator, playing with the vibrations and pushing myself over the edge again and again. It’s incredibly easy to use and can be used on his shaft too and during sex, you just have to hold it in place!
A lifelike dildo with a suction cup makes for an exciting night in, with realistic ridges, head, and veined shaft this dildo is always on hand for me. It has a suction cup base which makes hands-free fun a reality. This hands-free freedom gives you the ability to stimulate your g-spot in different positions and even simulate threesomes.
It’s is rigid enough to feel like an actual erection however it also offers some flexibility so you are able to bend it and move it in the ways you wish.
One of these panty vibrators is a beautiful gift that most women are going to love. Slip-on the soft panties, secure them in place with the silky ribbons, and then nestle the high-end powerful panty vibrator into the soft panties. With 12 speeds and 8 patterns to play with there is endless orgasm t be had.
Control these vibrations and patterns via the remote control that works from a mighty 8 metres away. Wear these panties in the bedroom and give your partner total control or wear them into the world and see how much you can take.
Sexy Gifts For Couples
Lastly, I wanted to share some of my favorite couple sex toy gifts, ideal as stocking stuffers, birthday gifts or even just for a bit of weekend fun. My boyfriend and I love these couples gifts, we hope you do too.
We love this sex toy kits, it gives you a chance to really experiment with certain things that you perhaps wouldn’t otherwise and you get great value for your money too. This sex toy kit comes with 11 different sex toys for you both to play with and enjoy.
I wrote a whole article on sex toy kits that feature everything from BDSM kits to anal toy sex kits so be sure to read that here.
This deep throat spray is a must in our bedside cabinets, it temporarily numbs your gag reflex so you can give blowjobs like a pornstar or someone without a gag reflex. A little goes a long way and it definitely makes me feel more confident in my abilities knowing that I am not going to gag.
Under the bed restraints that fit under any bed as the restraints adjust to suit your needs. Bound your partner to the bed by their ankles and wrists and explore their body whilst dipping your toes into the submission world.
The cuffs are made from velcro so are easy to remove and comfortable to wear. We love using these restraints and taking turns to explore one another’s bodies however we want.
Finally, we have this cock ring. Cock rings if you don’t know are able to give you stronger erection whilst helping you last a little longer in bed, they are comfy to wear as this one is made from stretchy silicone, you don’t feel it once it’s on. This cock ring comes with a vibrator so you stimulate the clitoris and your balls and shaft all once making it a truly exciting bonding experience.