Of course, great Sex can just ‘happen’ but having a few sex essentials nearby means it can be even better than great.
Being able to ‘up your game’ by 50 % with just the use of a few bits and pieces and sex toys alike is an amazing feeling and below I have listed all of my favorite sex essentials, things that make everything run a little more smoothly in the bedroom department.
Things from lube, vibrators, restraints and delay spray are all featured below and all make orgasms better, sex more enjoyable and trips to the supermarket a hell of out a lot harder (you’ll see what I mean!).
This high strength delay spray helps you too, well, delay your orgasm. If you suffer from climaxing too quickly or even if you just want to see how long you can last, delay spray helps you with that.
It desensitises your penis and allows you to last a lot longer. You just spray a small amount onto the head of your penis before sex and await its magical delaying powers.
What Other Users Thought:
“Usually, within a few minutes, I’m at the point of climax, but it took me a good 15 – 20 mins, with which my wife was impressed.”
This bullet vibrator is my favourite vibrator and has a WHOLE article dedicated to it. It’s also one of the most highly reviewed vibrators out there. The owner, Tracey Cox, is a well known ‘sexpert’ and what she doesn’t know about sex isn’t worth knowing.
The bullet is powerful, quiet, discreet and has an amazing intense vibration that sends shivers down your spine. The longevity of the charge is also impeccable and the whole vibrator, in general, is adored by so many people (with almost 1000 reviews on LoveHoney alone).
This vibrator makes for a great sex essential as it vamps up any foreplay and sex session. Run it along his shaft and balls for intense pleasure and place it onto your clitoris for an orgasm that will send you into overload.
“The rounded end on this superb bullet feels better for clit stimulation compared to other pointed tipped bullets”
Make sure you check out my review of the Womanizer W500. Don’t be fooled but it’s odd appearance because this clitoral stimulator is the first of its kind. It offers to you pinpoint clitoral stimulation by gently ‘sucking’ on your clitoris.
One of the other reasons I love it is because it doesn’t make your clitoris overly sensitive as the technology it uses has a way of avoiding this, which means more orgasms for us.
With 8 incredible levels of intensity and a unique gripping sensation for incredible orgasms, this womanizer w500 is a sex essential if you are looking for powerful, leg shakingly good clitoral orgasms time and time again.
Opinions From Customers:
“Using this toy not only made me reach the big O, but I squirted too. For the very first time in my life.”
One of the many reasons I just had to include one of my favorite vibrating cock rings is because with this essential you can make shared climaxes a reality.
The cock ring makes him harder and more erect and he can also enjoy the vibrations that are sent around his manhood via the bullet vibrator. The vibrator also delivers pinpoint clitoral stimulation, meaning if you time it right you could cum together every single time. ( Check out the cock ring that will change your life).
More Opinions From Customers:
“It is amazing, my husband was harder and lasted longer, which is what we wanted. He enjoyed it just as much as me. The bullet is removable, so I have used just the bullet. Is an amazing product!”
If you want to spice things up in the bedroom or get things moving along, this sexual card game is a winner. It’s a way to experiment with your partner in a fun, non-intimidating way.
It may not be considered an ‘essential’ but it’s definitely a brilliant way to have a little bit of extra fun from time to time if you want to get into the mood or just feel like fooling around, a sexy card game is the way to go and should always be kept right next to the bed for intense dares and thrilling afternoons.
Opinions On This Card Game:
“Needless to say, we were not disappointed. My boyfriend and I absolutely love this game. It’s easy to play and is guaranteed to lead to some hot fun! A must-try!”
A love egg is definitely one of my favorite sex must haves. It can be used during foreplay for some internal, blissful pleasure and it can also be used in public to get things really heated before you can finally get home and get to it.
Use your love egg when out on a date, at the supermarket, and when running errands or even just taking a walk. Let your partner take control of the remote and try yourself and not cum when you feel the intense vibrations rippling through the love egg.
What Others Said:
“I don’t think we have ever eaten a meal so quickly. By keeping the egg on full power and the latter patterns my other half climaxed on the way home and couldn’t wait to get it out for all the right reasons when we got home.”
Lube is one of the most important sex essentials. You need lube to use sex toys, be more comfortable and explore places you have never been before.
Lubricant makes sex a lot better (IMO) and this cupcake lube is at the top my list. Who doesn’t love the taste of cupcakes? especially with the special warming effect, that enhances sensitivity and pleasure.
“Couldn’t get enough of the flavour. It’s not sickly, sticky or artificial tasting at all. Would absolutely recommend this to anyone. Makes me want to give him a BJ all the time!”
If you’re a fan of head, you need deep throat spray. It absolutely changes the way that oral sex is performed. A small amount desensitises the gag reflex so your partner is able to perform astoundingly when it comes to deep throating.
You only need a small amount each time so you won’t run out quickly. Keep this by your bed or in your sex toy box so you always know where it is when you need it.
What Others Have Mentioned:
“My throat goes just numb enough off one spray to last around 5 -10 minutes, long enough to finish him off with his whole length in my mouth, which is a huge turn on for us both”
A menthol infusion of peppermint and essential oils this orgasm balm sends your orgasm to new extremes. The balm makes your clitoris more responsive and increases the sensitivity.
Discreet and easy to carry around with you, this orgasm balm is an essential for those looking for a different kind of orgasm, a big and better one to say the least.
What Others Have Said:
“It smells fresh and is non-sticky and does the job. It gives a nice tingle feeling and I orgasm every time using this balm.”
If you’re looking to get a little kinkier and vamp things up a little in the bedroom, then look no further than a soft bondage kit. (Mentioned in my cheap sex toys for couples article)
Perfect for beginners, it features everything you need to get started and get exploring the world of BDSM and rough play.
Learn what it’s like to lose all control and leave your partner in charge with the useful restraints and blindfold and explore hidden pleasures that you never thought to explore before.