I don’t know where you live but where I live there has recently been a mini ‘before summer heatwave‘ and it got me thinking, every single year I see people struggling to have sex when it’s so hot out and it puts a real downer on everyone’s sex life.
It’s not even the summer for me yet and I am already seeing people struggling with the heat during sex and seeing that I figured I would share some of my top tips so that you can have a normal sex life even though it’s like the fire pits of hell out there. If you have any tips to add feel free to send them into me or leave them in the comments below!
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Tip 1 – Use Fans And Or AC
I know it seems obvious but a lot of people forget to turn on fans and/or use the AC. It will make a huge difference to your sex life and keep you cool whilst you focus on more important things.
Tip 2 – Cool Down The Room Before You Go In
Spontaneous sex is good but during the summer months, you might have to be just that little bit more planned. Turn on fans and/or the AC before you even start having sex, let the air move around in there and that way it will be nice and cool before you even step inside.
Tip 3 – Have A Cool Shower Before
Something that really helps is getting in a cold shower before going to the bedroom, it’ll cool your body temperature right down and if your room is already cooled down from the fans and/or AC you should stay perfectly cool for the entire ride.
Tip 4 – Put Your Sheets In The Freezer
This does take some planning but you can cool your bed down too by carefully folding your sheets and putting them in a plastic bag in the freezer for a little while. They won’t stay cool for ages because of your body temperature warming them back up but they will help you out in the bedroom.
Tip 5 – Cool Shower Sex
If you can’t do any of the above, try something different and have sex in the shower on a hot summers day. Turn the tap onto the cold setting and enjoy the cool rainfall as you get busy in the tub.
Tip 6 – Avoid The Hottest Times Of The Day
If you can, try to avoid sex at peak sun times. For instance, the sun is at its hottest between 11-4 Pm so try and have sex out of those hours to avoid being excessively hot and sticky. The night time will be the coolest time of the day so try and fit it in when the sun goes down.
Tip 7 – Wear Lots Of Deodrant
This is less of a sex tip and more of a self-care tip, the summer makes most of us sweat and that can make us smell a little funky from time to time so be sure to be aware of your personal hygiene and ensure it is on its best form during the hottest months, nobody wants to have sex with someone who smells of BO.
Tip 8 – Keep The Room Dark And Cool
During the day try to keep your bedroom windows closed with the blinds down, once the sun starts to go down, open your window to let the air flow through. Keeping the direct sunlight from entering your room should help in keeping it a couple of degrees cooler and thus making it easier to have cool sex in.
Tip 9 – Pool
If you have your own pool considering fucking in there or just enjoying a little foreplay, it’s nice and cool and means you can do it at any time of the day but just be wary of chlorine and other chemicals in there. I also don’t recommend this if you share your pool with others as that’s gross.
Tip 10 – Minimize Body Contact
Try and not to cuddle, I know that sounds bad but you want to have as little contact as possible to minimize sweating and making each other hotter. Positions like doggy style are ideal as you don’t need to be on top of one another. Also if you are wearing clothes make sure they are lose fitting and breathable types of material.
Tip 11 – Ice Cubes
Grab a couple of ice cubes from the freezer and incorporate them into your sweltering sex session. Run the ice across your partner’s body and enjoy the cool trickle across your hot limbs.
Thanks for reading all about my top tips, if you have any questions please just get in touch via my contact form!