Updated: 06/11/2020

Believe it or not, having a tight vagina is something we can most definitely get back in our lives. Whether you’ve just had a baby or simply just aren’t as ‘tight’ down there as you used to be, there’s no need to worry about it because there are sex toys you can buy and exercises you can do in order to tighten up these muscles once again and experience more intense orgasms for her and more pleasure for him.

As we get older muscles losing strength is a natural occurrence, having babies is natural and our vaginas not being as tight and supple as they once used to be is again totally natural. All of the toners below are my top picks and will help women out there to feel more confident and have better orgasms. Some people go to the extremes by having surgery but none of that is necessary, your vagina has a muscle (kegel muscle) and if you work on those, your vagina will naturally tighten up just like any other part of your body.

Make sure the sex toy you pick is right for you and without further ado let’s get on to it!

What Are Kegel Muscles?

Before we jump straight into the sex toys I  wanted to let those of you know who aren’t too familiar with what it even is that you’re tightening a brief glance at the explanation. According to the Urban Dictionary, this is what Kegels do for women:

 “In women, a strong Kegel muscle can aid in efficient childbirth and gives the vagina a better “grip”.

You can feel this muscle by doing the same tightening around your vagina that you do when you’re trying to hold in a wee. Try it now, see? Guys have the same muscle too and we all forget to work on it. By tightening this muscle we can, in turn, tighten up our vagina and you don’t even need to break a sweat whilst doing it, you can do it discreetly, sat at your desk or whilst watching TV. Just squeeze and hold 10 times and then use one my vagina tightening sex toys that I mention below and your vagina will have its very own makeover.

On another note, a few of these sex toys are able to be worn out and about in public and I just wanted to mention my article on sex toys you can use in public for those of you who are feeling particularly kinky.

The Best Way To Tighten Your Vagina

So, here’s the best sex toys that you can use to tighten your vagina. This isn’t just for sex and pleasure, this helps for everyday life, maintaining your vaginal health and for me, it’s been a complete lifesaver in and outside of the bedroom.

Tracey Cox Kegel Toner Set

This kegel toner set is great as there is a smaller size and lighter weight and a slightly larger one, The smaller ball weighs in a 1.4 oz and the larger ball at 2.8 oz. Depending on how strong your kegel muscles are, sometimes it can be difficult for women to hold in the larger one so starting with something small and working your way up to the heavier one is really advised and great for toning your pelvic floor, orgasm intensity and having a more ‘gripping’ vagina.

What Others Have Said:

“It tones the muscles and sex feels so much better. After giving birth naturally I was worried about how sex would feel. I noticed the difference after wearing these just after a day.”

Ben Wa Magnetic Love Balls

These magnetic love balls are often out of stock due to their popularity so if they are available, be sure to get them as they don’t hang around for long. Weighing in at an impressive 2.2oz these Ben Wa Magnetic love balls are for ladies who are already quite familiar with kegel toning. Slip them in and squeeze your vagina around them, you will find yourself having more intense orgasms, stronger pelvic and kegel muscles and the magnetics inside these love balls (according to Lovehoney): “repel charged particles in the blood, your blood vessels dilate, and circulation to your vaginal muscles is boosted”.

They are discreet, easy to use and more than easy to clean. Make sure to always use plenty of water-based lube with these balls for easy insertion.

More Thoughts:

“The sensation from these balls was amazing. It took a few days to become accustomed to their weight, but my, do they do the job! Much better than previous sets I have owned, and have greatly improved my muscle control.”

Doc Johnson Pussy Pump

You may have seen a ‘pussy pump’ before but did you actually know aside from giving the vagina a swollen, plumped look it is actually good for heightening sensitivity and giving off a ‘tighter’ look. It isn’t as effective as actual toner balls but it can give the appearance of a tighter vagina as it ‘vacuums’ the vagina and it gives you both a lot more pleasure with a heightened sensitivity for her, meaning bigger and better orgasms.

Other Thoughts:

“When we took the pump off my pussy was plump and throbbing, it looked so good and my OH agreed he couldn’t wait to play with it. The pump was easy to clean and dry after use and I would definitely recommend it.”

Jiggle Balls

I’ve briefly talked about orgasm balm and it’s some of the best stuff I have used combined with kegel balls. When I saw this basics pleasure balls set I just had to see what all of the fuss was about. They are ideal for smaller budgets and a great way to introduce yourself to the world of vaginal tightening. It comes with two free-roaming of kegel toners, both coming in at 1oz each. This light, small size gives you a chance to get used to the balls and learn how to control them before working your way up to heavier and bigger toners.

Crafted with a smooth outer layer, these kegel balls are easy to insert (with a little water-based lube) and thanks to the feature of free-roaming balls every time you walk you can feel great pleasure. Tightening everything up down there and experience ferocious orgasms, a tighter vagina, and more kegel control.

More Opinions From Customers:

“I thoroughly believe that all women should have Kegel toys. They are designed to enhance sexual wellbeing, and who wouldn’t want that! This pleasure ball set is crafted to help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, leading to stronger, more intense orgasms, better muscle control during sex and a tighter vagina. If you want something a little bit more luxurious, I can’t recommend these enough. Go on, treat yourself and let Catherine ignite the powerful pleasure and inner beauty within.”

Double Kegel Balls 2.1 oz

Hidden inside this double kegel ball you will find two free-roaming jiggle balls which weigh in at 60g. This free-roaming motion will give you pleasure whilst you work out your kegel muscles and tighten your vagina. The muscles inside your vagina will, by their own free will, clench around this double kegel ball sex toy and give your vagina a workout even if you forget to squeeze.

With a retrieval loop, you can easily access these balls when it all gets a bit much and slip them back in again the next with the help of their soft and smooth silicone coating and a little water-based lube.

What Other Users Have Mentioned:

“I love them. Almost climaxed within minutes on first use. Recommend some lube for inserting but not 100% needed. I don’t bother. Feels amazing inside me. Gets me soaking wet and really turned on in no time.”

Vaginal Tightening Gel

If kegel balls don’t seem like your thing or even if you just want something a little extra to make everything a little tighter down there this tightening gel temporarily swells the vaginal walls for increased stimulation and sensitivity.

You only need a small amount to get things working, once applied, wait around 10 minutes for it to activate and then get down to sensational tight business.

Opinions From More Users:

“It was a struggle for my OH to get it in. This actually works. I kid you not, it makes you feel like a virgin again.”

Remote Controlled Vibrating Love Egg

This toy isn’t specifically for kegel toning, it actually is an amazing vibrator that delivers 7 different vibrations and patterns with a discreet remote that works from up to 10 meters away. You may be wondering why this sex toy has been added to this list and that is because this love egg sits internally and whilst it’s emitting its powerful jaw-dropping vibrations you can squeeze around it with your vaginal muscles and really enhance your orgasm and tighten your vagina without even really thinking about it.

More Thoughts From Customers:

“Holding that remote in my hand is like holding the strings of a puppet. I can make her smile, squirm, bite her lips, any time I want! Great to use on date nights. Or going out to dinner.”

3 Extra Inches Penis Extender

This sex toy is for the man if you’re still working on your kegel toning. Using exercises along with sex toys you will notice a difference but to really feel a change have him put on this penis extender. It’s hollowed out so he can slip himself inside and enjoy prolonged sex sessions, you can enjoy an added 3-inches to his penis and he can love a tighter vagina with the hollowed-out extender providing tight walls.

The ball loop makes sure it doesn’t go anywhere during penetration, the realistic head and shaft feel amazing for her and you are now free to explore a new kinky pastime.

More Opinions:

“The extra width and length provided really push all of her buttons and she orgasms and floods freely and several times whilst I’m using it, especially in doggy position. Coming inside it is also explosive for me, even when my natural hardness has faded a bit.”

Single Kegel Ball 1.1 oz

Sadly this kegel ball is out of stock so I have linked it to a sex toy just as amazing for you.

If you’re a complete kegel beginner and are worried about the heavier weights this beginner single kegel ball weighs in at just 1.1oz and will help you achieve a tighter vagina, more intense orgasms and natural lubrication if left in before sex.

Affordable, easy to use with its retrieval loop and non-intimidating this kegel ball is ideal for beginners who have no idea where to start.

Other Things Mentioned:

 “Was so surprised by how effective this Kegel ball is! I wasn’t expecting to feel results so quickly with so little effort. I found the Lovehoney Main Squeeze Single Kegel Ball to be great for me as a beginner, effective, and would highly recommend.”

3 Extra Inches Penis Extender

Enjoy greater visual pleasure and realism as this penis extender gives you a whopping 3 extra inches to play with. The realistic shape and textures add extra stimulation to your partner so you can both benefit from this large penis extender. Use it to have longer sex sessions by stopping PE, use it during kinky role play, imitate a tighter vagina and explore new positions for you both. Remember to always use plenty of water-based lubricant.

Check out this article for even more of my top penis extensions.

More Thoughts On This Sex Toy:

“A truly game-changing product. For the first time, I was able to provide extreme pleasure to my partner via penetrative sex, adding another element beyond touch and oral satisfaction. The positive psychological impact was astonishing”.

3 Step Kegel Ball Trainer Set

This incredible luxury kegel toner set comes in three different sizes and weights and once mastered will provide you will more intense orgasms and a tighter vagina by giving your kegel muscles an intense workout. The heavyweight is one that must be mastered, it has a smooth outer silicone and a handy retrieval loop so that you can easily insert and remove this kegel toner.

The smallest weighs in at 1.7oz, the second comes in at 2.8oz and the largest at 3.7oz.These three kegels will give you one hell of a pussy workout but are an amazing trio for those looking to really tighten up their vagina.

More Thoughts:

“The muscles are so much stronger and my orgasms are incredibly intense. I used to have very slight bladder weakness, nothing major, and that’s been fixed. Great product, definitely for intermediate users or very ambitious beginners!”

Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess Silver Pleasure Balls 

Inspired by fifty shades of grey these jiggle balls tickle your G-spot once inserted, so the more you move around the more pleasure you will feel. They weigh 7.8oz and all you need to do is slip them easily (with the help of some water-based lube) and tighten your vaginal muscles around these balls and tighten yourself up down there as well as getting ready to experience more powerful climaxes.

What Others Have Mentioned:

“With this product, I was pleased that they provided me with so much pleasure. As the balls moved inside me I could feel waves of pleasure as I was stimulated internally. The climax from this product was different and intense and well worth the money!”

Exercises to make vagina tighter

I do recommend using a sex toy to really get things moving along faster and putting your kegel muscles up to the test with weighted balls but while you’re waiting for your delivery, you can try out some kegel exercises.

Gently squeeze the muscles you use to hold in pee, it will feel strange at first but doing this for a few minutes every day will eventually start to strengthen your vaginal muscles. It’s really that simple. Once you’re happy, move on to kegel balls and really train your muscles to stay tight, intensify orgasms and keep your pelvic floor happy. Once your muscles are all nice and tight you should try out these sex toys that make you squirt.

If you have any questions, just leave them in the comment section below!

Resources You Must Read:

• The Womanizer Review (Best sex toy ever!?)
• Best Strap Ons For Kinky Couples
• The Most Amazing Thrusting Sex Toys