Updated – 31/03/2020
A question you would think only teenage boys would mutter amongst themselves after school –
“Did Kacey Cum bro?”
“Yeah bro, 24 times”
“Nah don’t believe you, girls don’t cum”
And on goes the conversation.
Unfortunately, I don’t believe this conversation only happens between the younger generation, I have actually overheard something similar between grown adult men and I am here to put an end to it. Yes, girls cum and no it isn’t that hard to make it happen. It just doesn’t happen by jamming your fingers into her like a lot of people assume.
If you’re asking the question ‘do girls cum?‘ there’s a small chance you may have never seen a woman cum or you just don’t believe it can actually happen, below I am going to give you my best advice on making a woman cum, how to make it the best orgasm she has ever had and when you hear her screams of delight after reading this and putting my advice to good use, I assure you, she has cum.
Make sure to also read all about my favorite oral sex simulator (for women) it changed my orgasms and I actually squirted using this thing. It makes me horny just to look at it!
How to make a girl cum
Before we begin I recommend you read up on my guide on how to make a girl horny it will just give you some basic tips and tricks that I use and that I’ve learned about myself over the years. However, the three main components you need to keep in mind are:
Make Sure She’s Relaxed:
Light candles, make her dinner, dim the lights, be calm and be kind. There is a definite time and a place for ‘quickies‘ and this time it’s going to be all about her and getting her off. Sometimes you really just have to get her into the mood, know what turns her on, spice things up if you are in a long-term relationship by wearing something you know she loves, smelling good, doing your hair, making her dinner and being the best version of you.
Let Her Know It’s All About Her:
It can sometimes take a little time for a woman to reach climax when things start to get hot and heavy during foreplay Often the time it takes puts women off and many fake their orgasm out of embarrassment about how long it’s taking. You need to get this out of her mind and let her know that it doesn’t matter if it takes hours, her orgasm is your priority. Make sure you let her know it’s all about her and it doesn’t matter how long it takes to get her off. Also, ask her what she likes, this is key to a good orgasm. Communicating your likes and dislikes will give you a great advantage, learning that she may not like it when you use your fingers and have her show you whats she likes is a great move.
Don’t Stop What You’re Doing
If she’s telling you not to stop or that she’s about to cum, don’t stop, don’t speed up, don’t slow down, just keep doing what you’re doing. I can’t explain to you how many orgasms have been missed when people do this, it ruins the orgasm and/or delays it from coming. When you get overexcited and get quicker because she tells you not to stop, this doesn’t make her cum harder, this 9 times out of 10 ruins her orgasm. Just keep your rhythm and speed if she’s enjoying it.
Oral Sex Trick
Oral is personally my favorite for climaxing without sex toys. I find it so much easier than my partner using their fingers or penis, it just feels so much better to me than when a guy is mercilessly rubbing my clit, oral takes some skill but it’s so sensual and so worth it. Below I have left a video explaining how it’s done so you can do it with your partner and see what happens! This video explains it so much better than I can.
My top tips for eating pussy:
- Start slowly by kissing around her vagina before parting the lips, licking up and down before finally making way for the clit.
- Lick and flick the clit and see how she responds, she may like it sucked, flicked with your tongue or gently moved from side to side.
- Incorporate your fingers if she likes that, use them to stimulate her internally as you keep your rhythm on her clitoris.
- Do not stop what you are doing or change in any way if she tells you she is going to cum and once she does cum does not stop until she absolutely definitely tells you too.
- If you want to try some sex toys that will help you to squirt check out this article.
Use Your Fingers (The Right Way)
By this I mean clitoral stimulation through using your hands, this feels great but make sure you use some form of water-based lube to ensure maximum pleasure for her. Remember to tease her, feel her body and respond to her movements. I have left another video below that explains all of the important stuff you need to remember so that you can see for yourself what I’m talking about:
My Top Tips For Using Your Fingers:
- Be gentle, don’t rub her clit like sandpaper.
- Feel around her pussy before instantly touching her clit, it’s super sensitive and it doesn’t feel great when you just go for it.
- Just like with your tongue, keep the same rhythm and flick or make circular motions on her clitoris.
- Get her to show you what she likes to do to herself before you play with her.
- Lube is your best friend, it makes it much nice for her and you don’t need a lot of it.
Sex Toys Will Make You The Best She’s Ever Had
The quickest way to make a girl cum is to use a sex toy. I have tested many and the majority have given me incredible orgasms and some have even made me squirt, something that I don’t think a man could do to me.
If you want to surprise your partner and see her cum like never before I do suggest a sex toy, all of the sex toys I am about to mention are shipped totally discreetly and even come with a 365 no questions asked money-back guarantee.
Below I have left two of the top sex toys that always make me cum no matter the day I am having, I also use them in the bedroom with my boyfriend and he loves using them on me and seeing the pleasure that I get.
The Two Best Vibrators For Making A Woman Reach Orgasm:
This bullet vibrator is powerful, discreet and ever so effective when it comes to intense clitoral orgasms. Hold it on her clitoris or let her hold it in place and watch as the out of this world vibrations stimulate her clitoris and send her into orgasm heaven.
The design of this bullet vibrator is sleek, smooth and ever so easy to slip into your handbag or pocket so you can use it anywhere you are. After using this you will see that yes, girls do cum and they cum hard.
The second sex toy I wanted to share with you is this wonderful wand vibrator, it’s not as discreet as the previous bullet vibrator but it’s a lot more powerful. It takes clitoral orgasms to the next level and even gives the woman the ability to experience blended orgasms.
The neck of the vibrator is super flexible and can get into most positions, use it to get her off and use it during sex for sensational waves of pleasure. It also plugs straight into the wall so there’s no need for batteries or charge, it’s incredible and something you and your partner must try at some point! I even wrote a whole review on my experience with the wand massager.
What If It Doesn’t Work?
It will work!
Making sure she’s relaxed, comfortable and knowing everything is about her will turn her on and help her to achieve an orgasm.
Follow all of the advice in this article, watch the videos, read up on the sex toys and educate yourself on what it means to pleasure a woman and once you do all of that you will know for sure that yes, girls do cum and they love it.
If you have any tips that you want to share that you use on your partner to get them off feel free to add them into the comments below.