Updated – 09/22/2019
Long-distance doesn’t have to mean zero sex at all, of course, you will have to use your imagination and have some innovative Skype calls but it doesn’t mean that a sexual desire must burn out because there are ways other than ‘mutual masturbation’ that can help keep your long-distance relationship alive in the bedroom.
I have been in a long-distance relationship and it wasn’t easy, any couple that can get through it belongs together. One of my biggest issues was the sex, I am a very sexual person and the only thing we could physically do is both masturbate at the same time using our respective hands and yes, that’s fun but it can get boring at times. What ensues in this article will blow your mind if you are in a long-distance relationship.
If you’re going away soon, be sure to read up on the sex toys that are ideal for traveling with, it makes you feel together even when you’re miles apart.
Firstly, I am going to show you my top long-distance sex toys picks and then some tips on how to keep the bedroom alive even when you aren’t physically together.
The Best Sex Toys For Long Distance Relationships
The biggest must-have for any long-distance couple is sex toys! Not just any sex toys, ones that you can control from anywhere in the world.
There’s nothing is hotter than controlling your partner’s orgasm while on Skype or some other video chat, so let me show you the best remote control sex toys you can buy.
This app-controlled g-spot vibrator has a perfectly crafted bulbed end so that it delicately pushes against the G-spot (whilst also stimulating your clitoris) for eye-watering internal orgasms. It boasts 10 vibration modes and the free app can control the G-spot vibrator from absolutely anywhere in the world so long as you have a WIFI connection.
Turn late night skype sessions into a passionate thrill ride with the help of this G-spot vibrator, it can also be controlled via the push-button control but it’s much more fun to allow your partner to take full control and pleasure you from the other side of the world.
What Others Have Said
“This toy is needed by every woman. It looks and feels different, and that’s a good thing. It’s the best rabbit on the market and We-Vibe has a very satisfied customer.”
Slip on this cock ring (with the help of some water-based lube) and enjoy a longer and harder erection and intense stimulation to your perineum to really take your orgasms to the next level. Use it alone or via the free app from anywhere in the world. Have him slip this on during the day and surprise him with one of the amazing 10 vibration modes available whenever you please. USB rechargeable and waterproof, this cock ring is made with a difference.
More Opinions From Customers
“Before this, cock rings were always a fun addition. Now, thanks to the Verge, they’re an everyday item that I can’t bear to be without.”
One of my favorite long-distance sex toys, this discreet couples vibrator gives you something to think about when you’re apart and something to use when you’re together. Slide it into the vagina and enjoy stimulation against the G-spot, the penis and even an external arm that stimulates the clitoris. It makes sex so enjoyable and fun and just like every sex toy on this list it can be controlled via an app.
If you are apart, control the vibrations against her clitoris and G-spot via the easy to use the app and when you together heat up foreplay and use the sex toy via the remote control and when you’re ready to enjoy it both together for incredible and unforgettable stimulation.
Things Mentioned By Other Users
“My partner is the one who used the vibrator itself; I controlled it remotely for her, and to great effect. The different settings are genuinely varied and moving between them was a breeze; the ability to intensify the vibration either slowly or quickly was great as well. In the app there is a chat function which also has audio and video calling – so far we have only used the chat function but it seems to serve its purpose; I cannot comment on the quality of audio and video calls.”
With a flexible neck and flared base this vibrating butt plug gives you wonderful stimulation from anywhere in the world. Soft, silky and with 10 jaw-dropping functions to play with, this vibrating butt plug is ideal for long-distance couples that want something a little different. The vibrations can be controlled via the app or remote control which means from anywhere in the world you can experience the sensations this vibrating butt plug has to offer.
What Other Users Have Said About It
“I love the We-Vibe Ditto USB Vibrating Butt Plug – however, calling it a Butt Plug is underestimating this sex toy as it’s so versatile. It’s a powerful multi-purpose vibe that can be used as a clit vibe, G-spot stimulator, and it is excels used as a vibrating butt plug.”
Tips On Keeping A Long Distance Sex Life Alive
We always need to keep things fresh in the bedroom, regardless if we are states apart or not. However, it can be harder for long-distance couples so I am going to give you some of the top tips I have used over the years to keep these types of relationships fresh.
Schedule in a skype, facetime, Whatsapp, whatever you use to call in every single day. Even if it’s just to say hello and goodbye, make sure you are talking to your partner daily. Normal couples who don’t live together would phone call, text or even meet up for a few hours so make sure you are apart of each other’s daily lives.
When you are both feeling it, get undressed and enjoy your own bodies. Touch yourself, use a sex toy mentioned above, get creative! Keep the spark alive by talking dirty, telling your partner what you want to do to them and how they are making you feel as you touch yourself whilst doing so.
App-controlled Sex Toys
All of the sex toys I mentioned can be controlled via an app that has a video and chats feature available, utilizes this to your advantage. Control your partner’s orgasm from anywhere in the world and experience new sensations and pure ecstasy as you watch them cum all thanks to you.
Use the postal system. If you have seen a cute pair of underwear or a cute pair of boxers that you think your partner would love, send them it in the post. Spray them with your perfume or aftershave, send a little hand-written note and enjoy the simplistic pleasures of being a little bit old-fashioned.